Be the Positive Owner of Life

Few days back, I was working on an email and while having a discussion with my manager on the same topic, he said negative words to me which was inappropriate to come from a leader. Let it be - you cannot stop anyone, especially a person with power in an organization.

After that discussion, I got low and took a short break, had lunch, spoke with my loved one and moved ahead towards work. I finished the work and closed my day. I did some cleaning, organized my place then lay down on my bed and asked myself - Why am I feeling low? Answer - those negative words were on my head.

What was happening to me was completely wrong as I was stuck and being controlled by another person's perception and behavior towards me. Suddenly, I again asked few questions to myself -

1. Does that person have the right to control you and your thoughts?
2. Does that person's word define you and your capabilities?

I had only one answer for both questions - NO, immediately this answer changed my emotion and I got a twinkle on my face. I realized that I have a whiteboard called LIFE full of different feelings - love, pain, happiness, grief, smile, tears, positivity, negativity, strength, weakness, confidence, fear. And its completely an individual right to choose what is best for the living.

Select alphabets, join them, make words and write your own STORY on this whiteboard that defines you and your future self. Positive thoughts have a deeper impact on our life therefore, start practicing this to see the magic in your life. In my scenario, my positive thoughts helped me to gain my self-confidence again.

I wrote "Positivity brings Gratitude" on my whiteboard, let me know what you would write.