About Pleasing a Woman?

Women get bored. Bothered why your partner doesn't look as engaging as they were before?

When they feel they are taken for granted

It’s difficult to please a woman if she doesn't reveal her pleasure secrets.

Without clear direction, her man may feel lost under the covers. Myths about what turns her on and what turns her off create untold anxiety.

A woman can be difficult and hard to understand outside the bedroom, but know this she is difficult in bed too.

Please don’t assume she is always going to be happy doing it the same way over and over. Some women are shy and won’t say anything because you are the man and you should know what you are doing.

Explore so you know the things she likes. –

He is often the initiator and conductor of the experience.

TOUCH - feel her skin and see her reactions to your touch. Find ways to make her moan and want more of what you are doing.

POSSESS -make her feel like she belong to you. Grab her with the passion you feel but be sensitive to her.

SMELL -take in the scent of a woman.

Each woman possess a distinct scent to her and a man in love will remember her forever.

For a woman to be remembered what better way is there to say it to her by closing your eyes and inhaling deeply and tell her ‘I remember you well and I can find you in a crowded room because your scent was made for me’

TASTE - taste her lips, the corners of her forehead, the nape of her neck, the shoulders the blades of her shoulders, the curves of her hips and the base of her breast. Know her taste and always hunger for her love.

If a man can please these few aspects of a woman, then a woman can find herself really in love with a man who truly has loved her this way despite his flaws.

In today's society, sex is the constant focal point, no matter where you turn. The current topic du jour is female sexuality with articles, books, and movies debating "what women want"

Contrary to popular belief, women are not looking for a gladiator in the Boudoir that will supposedly give her endless hours of body rippling orgasms.

Not only does this "goal oriented" way of looking at sex create performance anxiety, for both woman and men, it also sets up a dynamic where a woman is left feeling disconnected and distant

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Thank you …Intimacy matters

For many women, connection starts with communicating.

Men are typically very visual creatures, whereas women need to develop a bond with their partner over time.

This may include sharing her concerns around insecurities regarding her body image, vulnerability, commitment issues (yes, women can have commitment challenges!),

By letting her know that you are a strong, safe and supportive non-judgmental presence in her life, it can help her feel not only physically connected to you, but strengthen her emotional bond with you as well.

Men, please, swallow your pride and try .What have you got to lose? Instead of holding on to all that pride, hold on to her!

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The sexual response cycle (proposed by Masters & Johnson) consists of four phases: Excitement, Plateau, Orgasmic, and Resolution.

Most people do not realize that men and women go through this cycle differently. And sadly, the art of foreplay has fallen by the wayside — especially with most films depicting the "30 second fondle" before getting to bumping and grinding.

Many women need build-up from foreplay and that doesn't just begin in the bedroom, but outside, too.

Sending a sexy text or email, a lingering heart felt hug, deep kissing or sensual touching are great ways to get things stirring for her.

Again, ask her what she finds pleasurable and titillating. Delicious, slow building foreplay creates anticipation, excites her senses and immerses her fully in her body.

Thus, giving her permission to show off the best version of her sexual self.

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Men: It really isn't difficult or expensive to please a woman.

There is more happiness in giving than in receiving, and

It's the little things that mean the most.

After time passes in a relationship, couples tend to grow apart. Don't let it stay that way!

You can always work on making your relationship come alive again. There are things that both of you can do to reconnect, rediscover, and become one again.

It is most likely that once you take the first step to showing her how much she means to you, she will automatically and happily reciprocate.

People forget that a good relationship doesn't just happen on its own—it takes work!

(Yes, I said that four-letter word: WORK!) But she is worth it!

 If you truly love her and know that you have a wonderful woman by your side, you will do anything to keep her. Believe me, you may search forever and not find another woman like her. Trust me, if you do some or even all of the things she will fall in love with you all over again!

Leave Little Notes in Unexpected Places!

You want her to know that you are thinking of her throughout the day.

Women love little surprises, and after she finds a love note from you tucked into her coat pocket (or on the dashboard or in her lunch bag), she will be bragging to all of her girlfriends about what a wonderful man she has.

I can't tell you where to put them, you will have to get creative. in the plastic bag that you put his sandwich in, under the shaving cream, inside a folded pair of underwear, in his coat pocket, Bible, briefcase, suit pocket, and over the visor in his car, just to name a few.

When She Looks or Smells Great, Tell Her!

Everyone wants and needs to hear when others notice them. She will always want to look and smell nice for you if you let her know how much you appreciate the effort.

She married you because she wanted to make you happy—let her know she's succeeding!

Put Some Music in Your Life

Music always lightens the mood. When she gets home from work, after dinner, or just before you two drift off to sleep, put on some music you know she likes.

had a stressful day at work, music will not only calm me down, but will put me in a much better mood so that you are more receptive advances.

Then, at bedtime, you feel soothed and relaxed and yes, even romantic. Play music for her and she will respond and thank you for putting her in better spirits.

She will be even more impressed if you play one of her favourites and dance with her. She'll be amazed that you remembered the song she loves and since she'll already be in your arms, she'll probably kiss you!

Share Fond Memories

When is the last time you shared a great memory from your wedding or a sentimental moment from one of your first dates together?

Remind her of those memories that have stayed with you and tell her why they stuck in your heart and mind. Sit down together and go through some old photos of those good times, possibly even bringing out the wedding album or pictures from the honeymoon.

The Hair-Kiss-Hug Move!

Want her attention?

Come up behind her (but don't scare her), without saying a word, move her hair away from the back of her neck and kiss her there, put your arms around her, hug her and hold her tight.

Don't be in a hurry to let her go. Enjoy the moment.

She'll drop whatever she's doing and give you her full attention, maybe more!

Of course, if you haven't done this in years, she may be suspicious and wonder what you want, so try not to wait so long to do it.