Playfully Tease a Guy in a Flirty Way

What is the one thing that compels a guy to ask you out and develop a relationship with you? It’s pretty simple if you think about it. It’s that you are fun to be around; you make him feel relaxed after a high pressured day.

Guys love just to chill, relax and have fun; it’s the one reason why they like watching sports so much. And this makes having fun the gateway to a guy’s heart. You may know the phrase the guys use when they break up or need a break “It just got serious” or “I don’t want anything serious right now”.

In fact most guys don’t want anything serious anytime, but that doesn’t mean that they don’t want to date or be in a relationship with you.

A guy just wants his relationship to be fun and not serious all the time, no one wants that. And the best way to achieve this is by playfully teasing a guy and making him fall in love. Such playful teasing makes a guy want to be in a relationship with you.

Use attraction to tease a guy

The easiest way of teasing and the start of any relationship is attraction. Using attraction you can playfully tease a guy easily. The only reason two people talk to each other is that they are attracted to each other on some level.

Now what you have to do is use it to get to the next level. So here are some ways you can develop attraction and then use it to playfully tease a guy in a flirty way.

First Look

First look is all about appearances. It’s what a guy sees when you first walk into a room. Let’s be honest if you want a guy to be attracted to you then you can’t go out in sweat pants now, can you? So, yes first look is to tell you that you need to dress sexy, feel sexy and be confident to make the attraction work. Dress sexy, show some skin but not that much, and remember we are trying to tease him and not being easy.

Have a proper hair style, put some makeup on but don’t go overboard with it and smell nice. Doing all this will get you the attention you deserve and the confidence you need to tease him. And confidence is the key to flirting playfully tease a guy.

Eye Contact

Teasing begins even before you think it does. Like I said, you are even teasing a guy by being there and looking all sexy. But what makes it even more interesting is when you make eye contact.

Now it would be creepy if you keep staring at him constantly instead try making eye contact for a few seconds and then look away. Soon you will notice that he is doing the same thing and then its time to take to the next step.

Shy Smile

After making eye contact couple of time it’s time to use your smile to get things going. Know that guys hesitate a bit before approaching you. Even if you two have been making eye contact for an entire night he might not approach you.

To avoid this kind of situation you need to use shy smile to put him over the edge. The way this works is after making an eye contact couple of times, you combine your third eye contact with a shy smile which lets him know that you are interested. This gives him enough confident to approach while leaving the ball in your court for the next step.

Body Language teasing

Body language is very important when trying to playfully tease a guy. Teasing in basic terms is to turn him on and body language helps you to do that without even saying a word. It assures him that you are interested and also lets you know how he feels. Like a girl playing with his hair or keys is a sign of flirting and a guy leaning forward a bit or moving his arms around a lot is an invitation sign.

Now to tease him using this is to draw his attention to wherever you want. Say, if you want him to think about kissing you than while talking to him bite your lips just a tinge. This will make him look at your lips and that will lead to him thinking about kissing you.

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Thank you … What is it that gets a guy to ask you out, keeps you on his mind, and makes him keep moving a relationship forward? One word: Attraction. And not just any kind of attraction, but what I call emotional attraction. This is when a man feels a connection with you that goes beyond the physical.

Keeping the spark alive

The fun and playfulness of being unpredictable holds true when you’re in a relationship, as well. Most couples get very used to each other and how their partner will act and respond, day in and day out. Part of this is a natural progression to a relationship that provides a healthy level of predictability to things. Both parties need it to feel “safe.”

If you are a woman who also mixes this safety with fun, exciting, and playful unpredictable things, suddenly a man doesn’t know quite what to expect.

Suddenly, he’s reminded that he hasn’t quite seen everything there is to you. And, suddenly, you’re having fun teasing him and engaging in a playful back-and-forth that has the passion and attraction level rising all the while.

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If you think a woman should always wait patiently for the man to ask out, it is that you have not yet learned that live in the twenty-first century. Today, women can and should take the lead on certain occasions. This serves whether you are single or not. If you want to make a guy want you and he is not taking the first step, nothing should prevent you to take the first step. Why wait until you can get in the mood? If you feel like it, heat it up! This will make you irresistible to the man. If the guy is the one very popular then it is better to give subtle hints instead of directly approaching.