Plans & Adventures...

In October 2024, while traveling around Australia, I received an intriguing message on LinkedIn—an invitation to meet with a recruiter about an exciting opportunity in Saudi Arabia. Captivated, what began as a casual conversation quickly transformed into a journey to Riyadh for this new work assignment.

Returning to the Middle East wasn’t part of my life plan. From 2015 to 2019, I enjoyed a fulfilling four-year stint in Qatar, which provided me with interesting experiences. After that, I felt the need to return to London to reconnect with myself. I spent five years readjusting to life in the UK, navigating work culture, social dynamics, and the challenges posed by the pandemic. My plan was to stay in the UK. Eventually, I found a company where I believed I would thrive for at least 5 years. And I did for the first 3 years and as the organization underwent significant changes, the opportunity in Saudi Arabia felt like a sign to pursue a new adventure. I truly believe that "God laughs when you make plans."

Now, after just over six months in my new role and country, I’ve navigated a range of adjustments and emotions. As someone who regularly discusses change, emotional intelligence, and cultural adaptation, I thought I was well-prepared. I have a MSc in Cross-cultural Psychology and have relied upon classic models to help others manage transitions:

• Kubler-Ross Change Curve
• The Process of Transition – John Fischer (2012)
• U-Curve Theory of Adjustment (Black & Mendenhall, 1991)
• W-Curve Model (Gullahorn and Gullahorn, 1963)

Yet, during my first six months, I experienced the full spectrum of these challenges. Just because I understand these theories doesn’t mean I’m shielded from the effects of change. I often say, "Doctors are not immune to illness." Adapting to a new country and culture has been both exhilarating and transformative. Thankfully, my immediate line manager and team have been incredibly supportive, doing everything possible to help me navigate my role and learn about my new environment. However, I was surprised by how long it took me to adjust personally — the impact of being in an unfamiliar place caught me off guard. With the benefit of hindsight and reflection, here are somethings I have learnt in my short time here and I would like to share with others:

• Leverage Networks: Tap into others' networks, no matter how small, and don’t hesitate to reach out. My sisters connected me with individuals in their network who have since become valued additions to my social circle. Eager and friendly faces, ready to welcome you.
• Stay Active: I was a regular at yoga classes in London, which kept me grounded. It took me four months to find a yoga space here, and now I have, the familiar routine offers me an anchor.
• Embrace New Connections: I've met some wonderful people who are slowly becoming good friends and are a supportive network. I’ve also reached out to others and encountered some whose values didn’t align with mine. I’ve learned it’s perfectly okay to step back from those relationships if they don’t feel right.
• Stay Connected: Maintain strong ties with your loved ones back home. Regular communication with those long-term relationships can help you during challenging times. When emotions run high, the people who know you best provide a strong sense of psychological safety and support. Their familiarity and understanding can be a comforting anchor in the midst of change. My mum, sisters, a few cousins and friends have meant everything to me and more.
• Be Open to Learning: Learning about a new national culture and the company culture are part of the process. You will also of course learn about yourself. Learning involves getting things right, wrong and everything else in between. Give yourself permission to learn and grow throughout the journey. And remember to look for glimmers of positivity every day.

I am trying to predict what life lessons will come from this adventure. The truth is that it will only come with reflection and hindsight, so I need to be patient. What I can say confidently is that this opportunity is a great privilege of professional and personal development.

The duration of this chapter is unknown, as 'God laughs when you make plans.' However, I will embrace this journey with an open heart, a sense of adventure and remember to enjoy the journey.

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