The Planets F#@%ed Without Men… Init?
In a recent TV show titled "How to Be a Man" hosted by Danny Dyer, the man's man himself took a deep dive into the jungle of masculinity, ripping apart societal stereotypes and throwing down the gauntlet on what it truly means to be a bloke. Watching the show, it struck me how much it resonated with the mission of TRUUMAN, a platform all about reshaping what it means to be a man and sparking honest chats about men's mental health.
One moment that really hit home was when Dyer dropped into a school chat about Andrew Tate. The kids were gagged by societal norms, unable to speak their minds freely. It was a wake-up call about how much pressure we put on young lads to fit into some rigid mold of masculinity.
Dyer wasn't afraid to tackle the beast of toxic masculinity head-on. He questioned its meaning and the mess it creates. And when he got tagged with the "toxic" label despite his efforts to adapt, it showed just how flawed these labels can be.
The show didn't shy away from the tough stuff either. Dyer dug into the inequalities men face, like workplace accidents, homelessness, and the soaring suicide rates. He sat down with MP Ben Bradley to chew over the challenges men face, from domestic abuse to getting a fair shake in family courts.
And let's talk about domestic violence. Dyer visited a refuge for battered blokes, shining a light on the stigma and lack of support they face. It's a harsh reality check when men are brushed off by the powers that be, showing just how broken the system can be.
But it wasn't all doom and gloom. Dyer celebrated the rich tapestry of male identity, chatting it up with gay fellas and soaking in the scene in Brighton. By championing individuality and acceptance, he drove home the message that every bloke deserves to be himself.
Dyer even went rogue, exploring unconventional paths to mental well-being. He checked out construction crews swapping out therapy sessions for boxing gloves. And when he hit up a lecture at Southampton University, he learned that men thrive on talking shop, not sitting in stiff chairs.
In the grand finale, Dyer kicked back at a retreat in Kent, preaching the gospel of "third spaces" where men can let loose, connect, and find support beyond society's expectations. By urging blokes to be real and build each other up, Dyer's paving the way for a more inclusive, compassionate brand of masculinity.
"Danny Dyer: Mastering Manhood" isn't just a show. It's a call to arms, challenging us to tear down the walls of outdated masculinity and build a new world where every man can stand tall, true to himself.
Telecommunications Advanced Hybrid Engineer and Wellbeing Lead for the Able2 Network at Openreach l Curator of the Baro-Metre Group
11 个月Saw it advertised last night I’ll be watching it when I get a little time away from The kids!