PHYSICAL ASS*ULT BY MY PSYCHOLOGIST DR. JAMES BARBARIA/I GO FOR HELP AND ASS*ULTED!
Taken right out of the book "Love Outside The Boundaries!!!! In the book I change his real name to "Dean"
There was a night in September where everything came to a final blow. Dr. James Barbaria was already thoroughly exhausted. He picked me up Sunday evening after my son left. We drove back to his place. When we got inside barely before we even sat down, I turned to Dr. James Barbaria and said, “I feel insecure in this relationship.” He immediately became enraged. He said I always put him down and always find something wrong. I just wanted to express my feelings and all the insecurities I felt in this relationship.
Dr. James Barbaria was working himself up more and more in a tizzy. Again, he blamed me and held me responsible for his patients if I was to report him to the licensing board! I had enough! I turned and headed toward the front door saying, “this was a mistake to have come here.” He headed toward the door and blocked it, preventing me from leaving. So, I made my way to the side door, but he blocked that as well. Then I went back downstairs to his office door. But this time he grabbed me forcefully and threw me down on the couch. He was screaming and spitting in my face and shaking me so forcefully that he was hurting me. I was so scared. I told him to stop. I said, “It’s over; you crossed the line.” “Let me go; it’s over.” I was literally trying to fight my way out of his tight grip on me.
I felt like a battered woman. I ran down the stairs to the waiting room where he sees patients and tried to escape out of that door. He blocked that. Then I said, “I’ll call the police if you won’t let me go”, but he still wouldn’t budge. So, I threatened to bring him to the licensing board. I finally made my escape onto the city streets. I walked very fast and as usual Dr. James Barbaria was right behind me, following me. I was scared shit. I saw a police officer and I turned to him and said, “this man has pushed me and is now following me”. The police officer told me to keep going as he retained him.
I was quite shaken and called my husband to pick me up. He told me he wouldn’t be able to come for a good forty-five minutes because he was taking our son home from his weekly visit. So, I made my way into the old man’s garage. I was lucky that he was there this time of night. I told him what happened. He already knew about my relationship with Dr. James Barbaria. He was never thrilled about it and thought he was bad for me. He said, “you can’t drive a man over the edge; the next time he’ll knock you across the head.”Dr. James Barbaria had called and left a voice message to talk to me. But I said this was it. He had crossed the line and became abusive. I was not going to be a battered woman!
After my husband took me home my son was extremely worried and concerned about my safety. I assured him that it was all over with Dr. James Barbaria , that after what he did I would never, could never see him again. My husband and son were so relieved. They both agreed the next time it would probably be a slap in the face. I couldn’t wait until the next day to see Dr. Richard Geist to let him know what happened.
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Dr. Geist agreed, from seeing abusive woman himself in therapy that physical abuse usually starts out the way it happened with Dr. James Barbaria and then escalates into slapping and punches. And then finally the woman is hospitalized, and her own life is at risk. I told Dr. Geist that I broke up with him and that I was no longer going to do the couple’s sessions. Dr. James Barbaria wrote me another email and left another voice message on my cell phone apologizing. He just didn’t get it that I was worried about his erratic and volatile behaviors, that I was extremely worried about my own safety!
Here is that “apology email’:
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Sandra,
?Sorry that you did not feel comfortable attending the session this afternoon. I know that that is on me...and, again, I can't tell you how sorry I am for last night!? I do really hope that you can find your way at some point to speaking to me about what had happened...either with or without Dr. Geist present. I do still believe that it could really make a difference...?
I'm imploring you, Sandra, please give it a chance...and don't let this be the last of our relationship...
?Jim
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10 个月You should probably be a little more careful about what you post. Comments like that can end up costing you a lot of money. You can get your point across without using his name.
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10 个月He looks psychotic !! That guy has "Narcissist" written all over his face !! I bet he thinks he is Gods gift to the world ???? !!