Perspective: What's Your View

For as much time as we spend navigating the world with a self-focus lens, we often lose sight—maybe through complacency—of where we are, what we have gathered, and what we have available to put into immediate use. Unfortunately, this oversight can limit our thoughts about our potential to help others. We might sell ourselves short.

The truth is, regardless of where you've landed in life, you have something to offer. In 30 Worthy Guides for Mapping Your Best Life, I remind people, "Whether it be time, talent, or treasure, you always have something to offer." You can make a difference.

By taking a moment to acknowledge your achievements and experiences and by fostering a positive mindset about your ability to help others, you open the door to a powerful question: 'How are you using your seat of power?'??

With Grace

Hopefully, you have built an extensive, diverse network through the years. One built upon accepting and listening to many different opinions and perspectives. Because "you never know when you will need an outside voice to help you" (30 Worthy).

The same holds for others. For instance, I've been approached to write many academic and professional recommendations for people I don't always see eye-to-eye on specific subjects. My reason for endorsement is that I recognize and admire the higher value they bring through their general passion, commitment, or critical thinking.??

When we operate with a willingness to be fair and honest, it allows us to use our power, influence, or authority empathetically, which can go a long way toward fostering solid relationships.

With Generosity

Sometimes, we overthink the importance of our actions and get in our own way of being generous. We let our power set idle inside our heads:

• "I've already promoted a friend's business or initiative this year. Will it mess up my algorithm to share again? Or am I showing favoritism?"
• "If I tell her she is the best, will it devalue me telling another coworker they are the best for another action?"
• "I've already written two letters of recommendation this year."

STOP. Forest E. Witcraft offered us the idea that "In 100 years, no one will remember you." As he was a scholar, I don't think he meant the statement to be sad. More so, the intention is to point out that we only have power for a very short time in history; we should do all we can to use it for good.

When we operate from a place of kindness and understanding when it comes to giving to others, we truly get a sense of how even the smallest of actions can lead to massive changes in others' lives. I encourage you to operate from an abundance mindset—"Cheer others on when you see them on their journey, and help where possible." (30 Worthy).

So, the next time you grab a chair, think about doing a quick self-inventory and ask yourself: 1) How am I using my seat of power? & 2) How can I help someone else realize the full potential of their seat of power?

Cheers to making a difference!??