Be the person who leaves a mark not a scar

One time in our lives we all come across a situation that can emotionally scorn us and steal our confidence. As a result, rob us of believing in ourselves that we are capable of correcting and achieving great things in order to move on.

Some will learn while others will place blame on others for their insecurities, which is inevitable leading them to feel bitterness because emotionally they wasn't mature enough to correct themselves.

Some will experience cruelty from others and take their word that they are not capable of achieving, right down to correcting their actions by strengthening them in order to move forward in life.

What we don't realise is this'; we get so wrapped up in our emotions that we forget that there is someone out there just like you who has gone through the same adversities as you have, who is also clueless to what they should be doing in terms of aiming for a solution that is bets suited to you, your self growth and more importantly leaving a mark on others that it can be accomplish..

Without knowing it, if we don't deal with our issues we can pass on negative energy to our children from our lack of actions into believing that negativity is key therefore, feeding our scars is the only way forward. This also applies to our close circles and at times in our working environment.

Yes, everyone is different in the way they deal with issues, but we are all the same in terms we can take action and we can leave a positive mark of hope to others.

Below are some example of the kinda mark you can leave on people and it doesn't cost a thing.

• You can help them through a personal challenge
• You can be a loyal friend in a time of need
• You can serve as a helpful model or example for them
• You can walk with them through a time of grief or loss
• You can help them understand what has been puzzling
• You can guide them to a better understanding
• You can speak words of encouragement when they’re down
• You can help them meet and overcome an obstacles
• Lead by example can give another person hope by seeing you helping yourself and allowing growth

Remember; by fuelling your scars you are opening your doors to more scars therefore, leave a mark not just on others but turn that mark inwards to yourself and know you can do great things as well as showing others the path in doing so.

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