Permission To Connect.
Matt Pitman
Head of School | 2024 Most Influential Educator | 2024 Hot List | Author of ‘The Connection Curriculum’ | Leader | Speaker | Writer | Doctoral Student | MACEL | LEGO? SERIOUS PLAY? Certified Facilitator
Fostering meaningful connections among teachers, students, and parents is paramount for cultivating inclusive and collaborative learning environments. At the heart of this work lies the concept of permission—an often overlooked yet essential component for building trust, promoting shared understanding, and facilitating positive change within school communities.
Traditionally, the allocation of permission in educational settings has been hierarchical, with students as participants, parents as passive bystanders, and teachers as authoritative figures. However, as recent research suggests, a paradigm shift toward a more egalitarian approach to permission can significantly enhance engagement, cooperation, and ultimately, student success.
In reimagining the role of permission in schools, it is important to move away from the conventional top-down model and embrace a collaborative ethos where all stakeholders—teachers, students, and parents—are recognised as equal and active contributors. This shift not only empowers individuals to take ownership of their learning journey but also fosters a culture of mutual respect, empathy, and shared responsibility within the school community.
Cook-Sather (2018) has spent over a decade highlighting the significance of empowering students to actively participate in decision-making processes to not only enhance their engagement but also enrich their educational experience. By granting students permission to co-create their learning experiences, educators can tap into their unique perspectives, interests, and talents, fostering a sense of agency and ownership that transcends the rigidity of traditional classroom boundaries.
Practical Strategies for Granting Permission.
1. Establish Open Channels of Communication: Foster transparent communication channels that encourage dialogue and feedback among teachers, students, and parents. Utilise platforms such as digital forums, parent-teacher conferences, and student-led conferences to facilitate open discussions and solicit input from all stakeholders.
2. Encourage Student Agency: Drawing upon Dweck's (2016) research on the power of mindset, educators can cultivate a growth mindset culture where challenges are embraced as opportunities for learning and growth. By nurturing students' belief in their ability to learn and succeed, educators can empower them to take an active role in shaping their educational journey, fostering a sense of agency, resilience, and self-efficacy.
3. Promote Collaborative Problem-Solving: Encourage teachers and colleagues to collaborate with students and parents in identifying challenges, brainstorming solutions, and implementing innovative strategies. Foster a culture of collective problem-solving where diverse perspectives are valued, and solutions are co-constructed through collaboration and consensus-building.
4. Cultivate Trust and Respect: Prioritise building trusting relationships based on mutual respect, empathy, and understanding. Demonstrate genuine interest in the perspectives and experiences of students, colleagues, and parents, and honour their agency by actively listening to their voices and incorporating their feedback into decision-making processes.
5. Embrace a Growth Mindset: Foster a growth mindset culture where mistakes are viewed as opportunities for learning and growth. Encourage teachers, students, and parents to embrace challenges, persist in the face of setbacks, and adopt a proactive approach to continuous improvement and innovation.
By reframing permission from a hierarchical concept of authority to one of collaboration and mutual respect, educators can build a culture of trust, empathy, and shared responsibility within their school communities. Through practical strategies such as those discussed above, educators can empower individuals to connect authentically, co-create knowledge, and thrive in a dynamic learning ecosystem.
As the year continues on, lets embrace a new understanding of permission, seeing it as a catalyst for facilitating inclusive educational environments where every voice is heard, valued, and empowered to contribute to the collective pursuit of learning and growth.
Permission is one of the Focus Areas in my upcoming book: '?????? ???????????????????? ????????????????????'. Within the book are six Focus Areas, drawing your attention to the research, the tools and the actions you can take to address disconnection at its source. As we finish this issue, here is a final thought from my book:
"Students need the freedom to explore their space and reconnect the curious parts of their nature. Is there any doubt as to why older students, many years into the control model of schooling, show a lack of imagination or urgency in their learning?"
Thanks for reading.
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The misalignment between the education system and efforts to build sustainable connection is preventing school communities from travelling successfully along ‘The Connection Journey’ - a foundational concept in my new book ‘?????? ???????????????????? ????????????????????: ???????????????? ???????????????? ???????????? ???? ?????????????? ?????????????? ?????????????????????? ????????????????????’.
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"As a teacher who plans to move into middle leadership, The Connection Curriculum offers a refreshing perspective on education, emphasising the profound impact of genuine human connection on academic success and student wellbeing. Matt's research and practical insights will equip me and fellow educators with actionable strategies to revolutionise school culture." - Rachael Swatman
Head of School | 2024 Most Influential Educator | 2024 Hot List | Author of ‘The Connection Curriculum’ | Leader | Speaker | Writer | Doctoral Student | MACEL | LEGO? SERIOUS PLAY? Certified Facilitator
12 个月I'd love to know, what does permission look like in your school or organisation? Does it look different for different stakeholders? What is its purpose?
Head of School | 2024 Most Influential Educator | 2024 Hot List | Author of ‘The Connection Curriculum’ | Leader | Speaker | Writer | Doctoral Student | MACEL | LEGO? SERIOUS PLAY? Certified Facilitator
12 个月Thanks everyone for reading. As always, if the messages in the newsletter are resonating I would love for you to repost the newsletter to your networks and share/help spread the word. I truly believe connection is the cure to what ails our broken system. I appreciate the support!
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12 个月Fantastic newsletter Matt Pitman Can’t wait for the book