Is Perfectionism Holding You Back? Here’s How to Break Free and Embrace Progress

Hey Morning Mindset Community,

Let’s talk about something that many of us struggle with but don’t often address openly: perfectionism. You know, that nagging voice in your head that insists everything has to be just right, or it’s no good at all? That voice can be relentless, and trust me, I know it all too well.

For years, perfectionism had a tight grip on me. I was constantly striving for an unattainable standard, thinking that if everything wasn’t perfect, then somehow I wasn’t good enough. But you know what? It cost me dearly. It cost me my peace of mind, my happiness, and most painfully, it cost me my time—precious time that I’ll never get back, with family and friends who mattered most.

It took a lot for me to realize that this obsession with perfection wasn’t worth it. In fact, it didn’t serve me at all. Perfectionism wasn’t the key to my success; it was the barrier standing in the way of my true potential. When I finally let go of the fears tied to my need for perfection, everything shifted. And it’s because of that shift that I’m here, sharing this with you today.

Warning Signs You Might Be Struggling with Perfectionism:

Perfectionism can be sneaky. It might show up in ways you don’t even recognize at first. Here are some warning signs to watch out for:

1. Procrastination: You delay starting or finishing tasks because you’re afraid they won’t be perfect.
2. Overworking: You spend excessive time on projects, revising them endlessly, never feeling like they’re good enough to be final.
3. Fear of Failure: You avoid new challenges or opportunities because you’re afraid you won’t succeed perfectly.
4. Difficulty Delegating: You hesitate to delegate tasks to others, thinking they won’t meet your high standards.
5. Negative Self-Talk: You constantly criticize yourself for not meeting your own expectations, no matter how unrealistic they may be.
6. Avoiding Feedback: You shy away from receiving constructive feedback because it might highlight imperfections.
7. All-or-Nothing Thinking: You see your efforts as either a complete success or an utter failure, with no middle ground.

Choosing Progress Over Perfection

If any of these signs sound familiar, let me encourage you: perfectionism doesn’t have to control your life. You have the power to choose progress over perfection. You can find joy in a job well done without fixating on the tiny details that didn’t go exactly as planned. You can celebrate your accomplishments for what they are—evidence of your growth and dedication, not just the pursuit of an impossible ideal.

If you’re ready to make that shift, to embrace progress and let go of the need for perfection, I invite you to join me in The Morning Mindset Community this month.

In our community, we’re doing the real work to break free from the chains of perfectionism. I’m not here to offer quick fixes or magic solutions. Instead, I’ll share with you the exact strategies I use every day to be the best version of myself—imperfect, yet thriving.

Ready to Break Free?

If this resonates with you, if you’re ready to choose progress over perfection, I encourage you to join us. What do you have to lose? By embracing progress, you’ll gain more than you ever thought possible.

Join The Morning Mindset Community and start your journey today. Together, we’ll break free from the shackles of perfectionism and step into the fullness of our potential.

Looking forward to seeing you inside the community!

Warm regards,

Kisha Hicks