People won't see your struggle only your success

"Don't be afraid of ups and downs, when you are meant to achieve leaps and bounds". First and foremost always remember this maxim and go for your goal with full force and conviction. Because people around you are least bothered about what you are going through. Its not only you, its everyone of us. Do you care, when someone you know goes through struggle? Probably not. When you are struggling, people will rather bring you down and sometimes will interfere by saying how wrong your decisions are.

Everyone is going through struggles, people whom we call “happy" are those who overcomes the struggles and accepts the fact that problems will come and go in life and you have to face them. To achieve something great, you have to go through struggles that may tear you apart. But you have to go on, if you want to be that what you have determined to be. And yeah, accept the fact that no one wants you to be happy in life except your parents. These struggling periods of life will show you the true colours of people surrounding you.

And people will notice what you have achieved your life. No one wants to hear your excuses. When you become successful no one listens to a poor philosopher anyway. If you don't mind there's a whole list of 'professional' help, therapists, social workers, coaches eager to give you training at intricate level etc. So everything in this field is commercialized. There's a professional in every area you can think of.

Secondly, the pace of society today when everybody is so busy like racers getting at everything that glitters before their eyes that they feel in constant need for themselves. Greed is normalized. The system is totally amplifying that urge, smashing advertisements constantly in your face, turn on the tv and you'll see nothing but infotainment, distraction, all kind of things that keep you away from thinking about things that really matter.

Basically I think there two reasons, and these are just my thoughts but one is they do notice, but don’t know how to intervene or how to help or just what to do! I know my family has watched me struggle with an eating disorder and watched me struggle with recovering and saw me go in and out of psychiatric hospitals, but they never said anything cause it can be a touchy subject and some people aren’t comfortable with that and acting like everything is fine is easier.

And secondly sometimes people are too caught up in their own mind and life’s to notice what’s going on with people around them And that’s very normal, especially cause someone struggling depending on what it is is hard to see, I’m thinking of psychological things exp. depression. in our minds we are going insane struggling but on the outside you can’t see that. And also Sometimes people are very blind to small changes and details in someone’s behavior, until it gets so bad.

They don't know you're struggling or maybe they do, are on the phone laughing and listening to you get bullied, in real life stalking, bothering a person up front when she's not doing anything wrong to you. Of course you're at fault..especially when you're giving away your clothes, having cons be a nuisance harassing destiny's child which happens to be a daughter, trying to make her go crazy because some guy has problem and told everyone to harass her,being a nuisance to them, lying about her and blaming her for it. If course it's an annoyance to try to make someone go nuts by stalking the person, jumping into different cars, bullying the girl that has a heart of gold.

People do notice that you have problems, you have an eating disorder? You can’t hide it. Relationship problems, friends know it before you do! Struggling with colleagues at workplace? Everyone whispers behind your back. People feign not knowing them because they do not want to be embroil in your struggles, ultimately it is your responsibility to solve it, or fail. Humans are social in nature, and we are sensitive about the problems of people around us, very often more than our own problems. Cheers!