People don't cherish good people, they 'use' them!

Good people you see everywhere, they are talented, kind hearted, always willing to help, are empathetic, hard working, trust worthy and have so many qualities in them which make them good human beings. If you mean people who are connected with God spiritually and are actively trying to be good as he is good to them, then we’re on the same page.

However, some evil people are fundamentally sinful. These people are all born with evil intentions deeply rooted in our soul, heart, and mind to the point of death. This quality is evident by their ease at doing what’s bad or doing what’s good but for their own selfish reasons. They have to be taught to be good in behaviour. Again, that is evident in their natural inclination to evil. Such people are looking for good people always to take out their own bad intentions of harming their goodwill and making them scapegoats by way of manipulating them with bad intentions. The real villains of the society who always use their black tongue in maligning the images and reputation of good noble souls.

It's just that good people are usually having “different” choices than others who are bad in nature and they don't generally fit into a common group, they don't fit into casual talks and other stuff only because they are usually serious by nature. To be frank, other people find them “boring” to spend time with, but, whenever others need to be heard or, they are in need of some help, they instantly go to the “good person”, all because they believe in the goodness and kindness of these noble people. In some cases, where people are too self centered and don't care about others' feelings, aspirations and expectations, then they try using the “good people” so that they are easy to take advantage of, and they generally don't say “No” to anyone.

Let me share a small story here. Once there was a man who was very proud of being rich. As per nature's law, everyone grows old with time. He was also growing old and became much richer than he was earlier. One bad day he fell sick due to some age related disease and he started recalling all his past life. During his good times, he had never ever helped anyone who was in need or was unfortunate because he was always thinking that everyone who came to him was just because of his wealth and property that he has earned anyhow. Now in his bad time when he is in need of someone to help him in his domestic work, no one came to lend him a hand. Even he offered a big amount to someone who would help him, but some how no one came forward, just due to his behaviour in past life. Moral of the story is that if you are good to someone in their real need, you will find him/her coming to help in your bad time, to be by your side. No one is either good or bad, until you experience them and trust them wisely.

Today people are so busy with themselves and everyone thinks about only their selfish motives and that is pretty fine with such attitude. Everyone wants to grow in their own life by using good people, because they know they will never question them. Whereas those people who praise you or love you for who really are genuine and care for you and know how good you are. Every bad thing always teaches you some lesson and those are some bad lessons which makes good people to face much wrath of god in their lives. If you are really good then one day you will be repaid for it, but you should have patience to wait for that one good day.

Good people put others' happiness first and do not prioritise their needs. At some point, I feel that good people subconsciously want others to recognise them as good as they they think that they are not good enough. Good people go to any level to seek other people's recognition/appreciation. It is true that good people cannot say no to anybody or find it very difficult not to help anyone. They are always giving in nature and want to make others happy with their noble and generous behaviour, only thing they do not know is that there are bad elements in the society who take disadvantage of the noble deeds of good people and start maligning their image by bad mouthing them in public. Due to the above characteristics of good people, they become easy to manipulate.

People don't cherish good people and try to use them because good people allow them to do so. It seems like they don’t set firm boundaries with family and friends. Such boundaries are essential to build healthy and joyful connections. It’s a really good feeling to be sweet and generous. But for the wholehearted living, you need to have compassion, courage and conviction. I would be doing injustice to anyone who’s reading this if I don’t highlight how important it is to practice self-compassion. Once we start setting the limits, we may lose some people. But, don’t worry. They aren’t worth it if they can’t respect your boundaries. Try and discover people who’re kinder to you than you are with yourself. Stay Blessed!

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