People buy on emotions… or do they?
Chris Silvestri
Founder @ Conversion Alchemy | Message-market fit for B2B SaaS | Make your value impossible to ignore and join the conversation already happening in your customers’ heads. | ???Host of The Message-Market Fit podcast
We've all heard it before: "People make decisions based on emotions and then justify them with logic." It's a catchy phrase that's been passed around marketing circles for years. But is it really useful for writing copy that converts?
The issue isn't that the statement is wrong per se. It's that it's woefully incomplete. It fails to acknowledge the complex processes that form these emotions in the first place. By simplifying the decision-making process to "emotion first, logic second," we're missing out on a wealth of opportunities to connect with our prospects on a deeper level.
Enter the “covert calculus”
I’ve been reading "The Value of Others" by Orion Taraban, Psy. D., which applies behavioral economics concepts to sexual relationships to understand why we value what we do in others. It sheds light on a fascinating idea that I’ve never heard anywhere else: emotions are actually the end result of an incredibly complex, largely unconscious calculation process.
This "covert emotional calculus" involves hundreds of evaluations happening every second, taking into account factors like:
All of these factors (and many more) are processed below our conscious awareness, resulting in what Taraban calls a "value coefficient." This coefficient is then transformed into an emotion, which we experience as a gut feeling or intuition.
Why this Matters for your B2B SaaS copy
Knowing this, instead of simply trying to “evoke emotions” or appeal to logic, we can now try to align our messaging with the true underlying factors that drive our prospects' decision-making processes - often unconsciously.
Here's how:
1. Map the decision landscape: Instead of focusing solely on features and benefits, dig deeper into the contextual factors that influence your prospects' decisions. What past experiences might they be drawing from? What resource constraints are they working under?
2. Anticipate unconscious ealuations: Your copy should address the silent questions your prospects are asking themselves. How does your solution compare to methods they've tried before? How easily can it be implemented given their current conditions?
3. Show relatable success stories: Don't just list case studies. Tell stories that feel familiar to your prospects. Help them see how your solution worked for companies just like theirs.
4. Talk openly about costs and effort: Be clear about what it takes to use your solution. But explain why it's worth it in terms your prospects care about.
5. Paint a vivid future: Help your prospects imagine the long-term impact of successfully implementing your solution. This taps into the imaginative aspect of their “value calculations”.
So emotion isn't really the starting point – it's the finish line
Yes, people do buy on emotions... but there's way more going on under the hood that we can influence.
Instead of trying to create emotions that drive decisions, why don’t we focus on influencing the underlying calculations that result in those emotions?
Your goal isn't to make prospects feel a certain way about your product. It's to provide the inputs that, when processed through their own internal value system, result in a positive emotional response towards your offering.
This requires more nuance and depth in your copywriting. It means moving beyond surface-level pain points and generic benefits. Instead, you're crafting content that resonates with the complex web of factors influencing your prospects' unconscious evaluations. It also means knowing what questions to ask and how in your research.
Next time you sit down to write copy for your B2B SaaS product, resist the urge to simply list features or appeal to broad emotions. Instead, try to map out the decision landscape of your ideal customer. What past experiences are they drawing from? What current conditions are they operating under? How might they be unconsciously evaluating the value of your solution?
That deeper connection could be the edge that sets you apart.
[this explanation] clarifies why feelings often seem to come out of nowhere. They don’t really: they are the transmuted outcomes of the valuation process. It’s simply because the process is normally so deeply unconscious that we experience the emotions as sort of arising within us. In the absence of a better understanding, we’ve even created a mysterious organ to help explain the origin of these feelings: the heart.
Orion Taraban, Psy. D., "The value of others"
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