The Patience-Persistence Paradox

I’m naturally impatient. And naturally persistent. And that makes the Patience-Persistence Paradox a tough one for me to manage, never mind master.

Like every paradox, we are presented with seemingly contradictory traits that--upon closer look--are actually complementary to each other. When to be patient? When to be persistent? How to achieve balanced versatility? How can we answer these questions? 

For guidance, let’s look at two people who’ve mastered the paradox: A prisoner and a saint (talk about seemingly different!)

Andy Dufresne wrote weekly letters to the government before receiving $200 to upgrade the Shawshank Library—six years later. And, of course, it took him 17 years to dig a tunnel and eventually escape.

Monica prayed for the conversion of her son, Augustine, for 17 years. That worked out pretty well. He became a saint and, in the process, so did she.

Is “zeal for the mission” the secret sauce? It certainly was for Andy and Monica—freedom and salvation seem like worthwhile pursuits. 

While far less dramatic, we see noble attempts to manage this paradox in everyday life: The social entrepreneur raising capital; the salesperson pursuing a key prospect; the teacher with her students; the physical therapist with her patient; the veteran transitioning to civilian life; the coach with his players and parents with their kids. 

Perhaps—perhaps— just being aware of the significance and elusiveness of managing the Patience-Persistence Paradox is a good first step.  

So c'mon; get going! I mean, whenever you're ready.