Party Experience

1. I used to think the party life was entertaining and enjoyable, but one night made me appreciate the relaxed pace of home. Every party I have gone to before this flashy night was a fight between us and these other guys. That night I had observed I was invited to a fake birthday party , I must of had listened to my instinct but that night made me stronger. Freshman year of high school , One of the years you can't forget. During my this year I met kelly , zack , samaira , khushi and a lot of other people even outside the city of Mumbai. All of us had same interest and the one that's on top is partying , mean is as we figured if there a party then its females. Throughout all the partying my buds and I gain great among of popularity which is cool, but that's when the jealous others reveal out of nowhere . A week before this mad night there was a party on main st in Leopol cafe , everyone was talking about it. Full excitement going through inside while I’m getting dressed and waiting for my buds, which felt like time was constantly going in some motion. I was very impatient couldn't wait even a second to get in the party enjoy myself as I haven't had enjoyment in a long time. Finally a car engine and loud music parked in front of my sweet home having a feeling that's them , a huge smile came across my face.

2. A teenager must know at their first party that the parents are there to support them out every step of the manner without being intrusive. My teen son first party was looked forward to with great love, but once guests started to arrive he became totally overwhelmed and retreated to his room in tears. My older daughter took over entertaining the guests while I went to calm my son. Before you knew it my daughter had the group laughing and enjoying themselves pretty loudly. My son fixed himself up and decided he might rejoin his party. Matters went very well from then on. The point of having teen parties, I think, is to give teens experience in social pond. At least one parent must always be on hand to support their teen with encouragement, discouragement of rough behaviour, and pretty support of their child. Yes, they may have a few “wobbles” as my son did, but with each successive and cool party he got better and better at being a host and most of his buds got better and better at being well behaved guests.

3. I went to what I would call pretty close to the perfect party last night. Here's what made it so cool:

1. Great people. This is the most significant part. There were only about 35 people and I was familiarised with at least 25 of them. 30 is a good number as it's not quite small, not quite big. Also, there were plenty of various people to talk to, so I wasn't stuck talking to the same human all night.

2. No alcohol, drugs, etc. We (teenagers) act like we’re high as it is, I can't visualise what it would've been like if there was booze or weed involved.

3. Variety of activities. Some of us travelled off on a Pokemon hunt, others hung back and chatted. Some played truth or dare, others made Ludo game. Some sing, others sat around the fire and dance. There was always a some different stuff going on, which also connect to the number of people at the party.

4. No drama. Whether the fact that the only two guys attending (one of which being the host) were not gay made a difference, I don't know, but there wasn't any guy drama, so that was a nice spare. Also, none of us had any complaint with each other before (or after) the party, so that made it more enjoyable.

5. Food and music. Gotta love food- there were snores, cold drinks and cheese cake served throughout the night. There was also music on that anyone could change, so everyone had a turn listening to what they love. We all loved the same music, which made matters easy.

4. It's rather simple. Most teenagers will enjoy a party that has:

? A good sound and a good DJ. cool music = chilled out party… although some music teenagers listen to is cool. Oh the irony, but since it's the music that (sadly) the majority enjoys, it is the one your party wants. I am addressing the American culture in this subject (I'm not saying all American music is cool), because other cultures are pretty open-minded in the music they enjoy in parties (Latinos, for example. We enjoy everything)

? Food. No ones loves a party where there isn't anything to eat. Of course, pick reasonable food in huge amount. Nothing fancy.

? Alcohol. Teenagers have this mania for alcohol and think it's awesome to have fun. Free booze inspire them, and for them to classify your party as “good” you must have a bit of it. If your morals are unsullied and correct, forget it… but there's a chance matters may not go as you expect. It's the truth.

? A good location that has space to dance, and other zone where you can just hang out and chill with your buddies. No one spends the whole party partying, so the place itself is significant. That's pretty much it. Some teens enjoy alcohol in parties, but it's their issue if they need to get into that stuff. It must not be provided by the host. Now, bear in head that alcohol isn't important for a good party. I've been in kick ass parties without any drink, and some pretty dull where you can dive in alcohol. The issue is the teenage stereotype and their mind frame orbits around illicit substances, and in this general mind frame, alcohol means enjoyment.