Is Parenting (and Growing Up) Really Harder Today?
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Parenting has always come with challenges, but in 2024, many parents are wondering: Is it truly harder today than when we were kids?
The answer seems to be yes. Raising children today presents unique difficulties that Gen X and Millennials didn’t face.
Between the explosion of technology, mounting academic pressures, mental health concerns, and social media risks, the landscape has shifted, making parenting more complex than ever.
Technology: A Double-Edged Sword
When we were growing up, technology was limited to TV and occasional video games. Social media wasn’t a factor, and much of our free time was spent outdoors or interacting with friends face-to-face.
Today, kids are immersed in a digital world from a young age. From smartphones to social media platforms like TikTok and Instagram, they’re exposed to a constant flow of information and interaction.
According to PEW Research, 69% of parents believe that technology has made parenting harder. Social media introduces kids to social comparison, online bullying, and unrealistic portrayals of life, all of which can contribute to anxiety and low self-esteem.
Managing these online risks has become a key responsibility for parents, who must also guide their children to use technology positively.
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Academic Pressures: Higher Stakes, More Stress
The academic landscape has become far more demanding. Whereas we focused on getting good grades, today’s students are expected to excel in multiple areas—academics, extracurricular activities, sports, and even part-time jobs—all while maintaining a social life.
As one Gen Z student shared, "Adults expect too much from us. We need to do everything, all at once." This pressure to succeed across the board can feel overwhelming, with social media adding to the stress by making every success and failure visible. Balancing these expectations is a real struggle for many parents and kids alike.
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Mental Health: More Awareness, Bigger Needs
In previous generations, mental health issues were often ignored or stigmatized, but today, parents are much more attuned to their children’s emotional well-being. 71% of parents are actively involved in supporting their kids' mental health. However, the challenges are greater, with rising rates of anxiety, depression, and loneliness often tied to academic pressures and social media exposure.
According to the American Psychological Association (APA), rates of anxiety and depression among children have increased dramatically over the last decade. While it’s encouraging that mental health is now part of the conversation, the sheer scale of the problem can leave many parents feeling unsure of how to help their children manage these emotional struggles.
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Social Media and Drugs: A Growing Danger
Social media isn’t just a space for sharing fun moments; it has also become a platform for risky behaviors, including the sale of illicit drugs. In 2021, 77% of teen overdose deaths were linked to fentanyl, with much of the drug trafficking happening on apps like Snapchat. This reality adds a layer of concern for parents. It’s no longer just about monitoring real-world activities—online behaviors also need careful supervision to ensure safety.
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Parenting Styles: From Independence to Involvement
Many of us grew up with more independence, often managing our own schedules after school. Today’s kids, however, are raised in an era of more involved parenting, often referred to as “helicopter parenting.” While this offers safety and support, it can also lead to kids feeling overwhelmed by high expectations.
Parents today face the challenge of striking a balance—giving kids the freedom to develop independence while still providing enough involvement to guide them.
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Conclusion: Yes, It’s Harder—But There’s Help
Yes, parenting (and growing up) is harder today. Technology, academic pressures, mental health struggles, and social media dangers make the landscape more complex than ever.
However, with awareness, practical strategies, and the right support systems, there is hope for navigating these challenges.
At Bonfire Digital Wellness, we understand the complexities of modern parenting. Our school counselor-led coaching programs offer personalized check-ins and emotional support to help kids thrive. We’re here to ensure they feel seen, heard, and supported in navigating the pressures of today’s world. If you’re seeking extra support, BonfireDW is here to help you and your family build a brighter future together.
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