Parental alienation affects loving mothers too...
Janis James MBE
Chief Executive of Good Egg Safety. A non-profit Community Interest Company. Passionate about social justice and uncompromising about keeping children and their families, safe from harm. Views my own.
Today my daughter turns 13.
Today, I won't see my daughter. Again. Another year, another birthday missed.
Today, a little girl in silent crisis will be forgotten, neglected and tossed aside by someone who should be her hero.
She will reminisce of the times she could run free, speak freely and be genuinely confident in all that she is.
She will think of the bright, neon pink shoes she really wants but is too afraid to come out of the torture of her silent struggle to just be herself...and wear those shoes like the little girl she used to be, would.
Today, a little girl becomes a teenager yet has been forced to feel like an adult for years.
Today, a little girl dies a little more inside on what should be one of the happiest days in her memories.
Today, a mother cries for the loss of a child that is still alive.
Parents, think twice before using your children as weapons in acrimonious break-ups. It doesn't matter how angry you are. It doesn't matter how much you want revenge.
DON'T USE YOUR KIDS TO GET IT
It may feel like you've won, but you've lost everything. You lost a child's innocence and that child will never be the same again.
Today, think twice. Think about a little girl slowly dying inside, losing herself more and more as the days go by. My little girl. And don't make the same mistake her father did.
Children need both parents...
Reproduced with kind permission from Christina. We hope you get your little girl back very soon.
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4 年92% of those who referred to LDVP for parental alienation support advise and guidance were made by mothers. The more attention that is drawn to making PA a gender issue the more time is wasted, when the focus should be dealing with the real issue “the protection of children” . It affects everyone it is a non gender specific epidemic that is growing daily!
Accredited Family Mediator/Trainer/ Independent Social Worker-Providing independent social work assessments for children and Families and training and consultancy in the field of immigration based social work
4 年It’s a case in point that Parental Alienation is not gender or parent specific. Nevertheless it is happening and is extremely damaging to those involved
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4 年If they listened to us then they would have to admit it is real! No one heard me for so long until I started talking about it publicly on Facebook, and then all of a sudden hundreds of pairs of hands shot up all around the world...truly shocking!
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4 年It's a terrible abuse of a healthy parent handsomely rewarded by the CMS who encourage the disputes. It can impact anyone . I know a lot of fathers and a mother who has experienced this and all cases I know of are awful