Palliative Care: An Unexpected Roadmap to Intentional Living

Palliative Care: An Unexpected Roadmap to Intentional Living


The heart of this story was born from my role as a caregiver to my beloved wife, Desiree, throughout her 11-year journey with metastatic breast cancer. Those years, etched with pain, joy, and resilience, revealed a remarkable blend of purpose and unyielding resolve within her to leave a mark.?

Despite the unrelenting treatments to manage her illness, she became the Founding Director of Palliative Care at New York Weill Cornell Hospital, an unwavering beacon of strength and inspiration. Her journey illuminated the profound essence of palliative care, teaching me invaluable lessons in the art of living and embracing life’s impermanence. Her legacy, a testament to unwavering determination, sparked a transformation within me. Following her passing, I harnessed these experiences and newfound insights, forging a path illuminated by empowerment. With an unshakable resolve, I ventured into the realms of life coaching, writing, and speaking?—?a journey underscored by the transformative force of personal growth and the resounding impact of triumphing over life’s most profound adversities.

What I realized as I moved forward was that the principles of palliative care serve as an unexpected yet profoundly illuminating roadmap in the journey of personal growth and intentional living. Often associated solely, and wrongly, with end-of-life care, palliative care transcends its clinical roots, offering invaluable insights into living life well. At its core lies a philosophy that echoes the essence of empowerment, conscious decision-making, and the pursuit of a quality life aligned with one’s values.

Empowerment Through Conscious Decision-Making

Palliative care champions autonomy in patient choices, fostering empowerment through each decision. Similarly, intentional living thrives on conscious decision-making?—?a cornerstone of empowerment and my personal philosophy Possibility in Action?. Each deliberate choice made in life’s odyssey becomes a catalyst for personal growth, steering us closer to a purposeful existence.?

The Power of Mindful Choices

Mindful choices are the threads that weave the tapestry of intentional living. They resonate with our values and aspirations, shaping the narrative of our lives. Whether in career, relationships, personal growth, or daily habits, each choice holds the potential to bridge us toward our envisioned destination. Remember, each action echoes for eternity. Is the choice you are about to make aligned with who you want to be and how you want to live?

“Embrace the might of conscious choices, shaping not just our days, but the future path we shall walk upon.”?—?Robert?Pardi

Owning Your Narrative

To embrace empowerment is to claim ownership. It’s about actively sculpting a life that mirrors our values and desires. By steering our decisions towards our compass of values, we grasp the reins of our narrative, celebrating successes, and learning from challenges with an unwavering sense of agency. In other words, take responsibility for what your life is today and for what it could be tomorrow.

The Ripple Effect of Empowered Choices

Empowerment through conscious decision-making extends far beyond individual choices; it’s a ripple that influences the fabric of our existence. Each empowered decision resonates through our experiences, relationships, and personal fulfillment, painting a portrait reflective of our intentional living.

Exercises for Intentional Living:

  1. Values Assessment: Reflect on your core values. Create a list ranking them in order of importance. Revisit this list regularly to ensure alignment with your life choices.
  2. Decision Journaling: Maintain a journal to document significant decisions. Note the values guiding each choice and reflect on how they contribute to your overall life’s direction.
  3. Mindful Reflection: Dedicate time daily for mindful reflection. Evaluate the day’s decisions, assessing their alignment with your values and their contribution to your intentional living.

Palliative care focuses on what does “quality of life” mean. It beckons us to explore our values, define our aspirations, and make choices aligned with our essence. It’s a call to seize the reins of our existence, navigating life with intentionality, purpose, and an unwavering commitment to shaping our stories. Through its teachings, we unearth the profound art of living deliberately.

Define “quality of life” for yourself today, and then go out and live as Possibility in Action?.


Please visit my website www.robertpardi.com if you would like to learn more about me and my philosophy of Possibility in Action?. #possibilityinaction

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