Pacing yourself

Pacing yourself

If you develop health problems—mental or physical—what happens to your loved one? Their well-being depends on yours. So it's vital that you keep yourself healthy and in balance, for your sake as well as theirs. Not taking the time to do this is the biggest regret of former caregivers. There is always a way.

Take breaks

No one can be "on" all the time.

  • Ask family to relieve you. A little time after work or on the weekend. Or some of their vacation time dedicated to taking care of your relative so you can do something nourishing for yourself.
  • Consider an adult day program with activities and social opportunities for your loved one.
  • Investigate respite programs for short-term relief.
  • Maintain a hobby or social connection that is completely unrelated to caregiving.
  • Take a mental break at least 10 minutes a day. Perhaps you talk with a friend who has a good sense of humor, or watch silly videos. Maybe you meditate or pray.

Take care of yourself

  • Keep up with regular doctor visits and preventive exams. Take your own health seriously. Do not postpone surgeries or other treatments you need.
  • Cultivate healthy habits (seven to eight hours of sleep per day, regular exercise, and a healthy diet). Avoid unhealthy crutches such as alcohol, overeating, or medications.
  • Be alert for signs of depression, the number one mental health problem for family caregivers.
  • Nurture your other relationships (spouse and kids, especially). They deserve your attention, and you need them. Find a healthy balance.
  • Stay connected with friends, even if just by text. Isolation is bad for your mental and physical health.

Periodically step back and acknowledge all that you do. It's easy to feel you don't do enough or aren't doing things perfectly. Instead, recognize the service you provide. Salute your achievements. You are doing noble work!

How are you pacing yourself?

Whether by setting limits or doing daily exercise or meditation, you need to guard your own well-being. As the Charlotte Metro and Lake Norman experts in family caregiving, we at Caregiving Corner assure you that it's not selfish, it's imperative! Give us a call to learn how you can maintain a healthy balance in your life: 704.945.7170.

Julie Badgley

Julie Badgley Move Management

1 年

Such an important reminder! Thanks for sharing!

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Philip Marxen

Long-Term Investor | Entrepreneurship through Acquisition | Senior Care

1 年

"No one can be "on" all the time." Great quote from Jennifer's article. Family caregivers need rest. So important that they're able to invest in their own health and wellness.

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Neal K. Shah

America's Chief Elder Officer | CEO at CareYaya Health Technologies | Co-Founder of Counterforce Health | CY Multiscale AI

1 年

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