Overcoming old barriers
Cristian Garcia
Financial Advisor | Wealth Strategies | Trust Coach & Thought Partner
We all have an image of who we aspire to be in our minds our ideal life is abundant, joyful, warm, sunny, the light is magistical but what stop us from creating that ideal life a reality? As i been sitting back to reflect on what has held me back the most i realize it has always been me. We all co-create but we all have a unique line where no one can help us but ourselves. Think about love when you fall deeply in love with someone is because they are creating space for you to heal. They created a safe space for you to express yourself, their love itself did not heal you but having the ability and space to heal is what made you fall in love with that person and everything around you. So the question is how can we create a safe for ourselves in the journey back to our true selves.
A good first start would be accepting our uniqueness let's face it whether you want to accept it or not you are a rare unique human being. You have the opportunity to come and explore the world and that creates a spark in us, but somewhere along the path we start believing we don't have much to offer and that we have to go seek outside what will make us feel whole and its where we began to lose ourselves. Why would you take away your power of authenticity when the universe is trying to create through you. We take away our authenticity and follow the crowd leaving behind the strongest tool we have our voice. When you give up your voice by accepting others beliefs you lose the power to create a world that suits you.
If you ignore your uniqueness, lose your voice, and follow the crowd you are missing on the opportunity to feel alive and free. The universe is always expanding evolution is always moving forward and when you have gut feeling is the universe seeking its expansion through you. That naturally gives you a unique power of expression because no one else is having the same type of calling. It will give you strength and energy it will naturally flow if you go along with it but what happens when you ignore it? you start to create barriers between you and the vision of your ideal life.
When barriers are created we start to distance ourselves from what we have achieved, we separate from ourselves and go into comparisons and insecurities. We start to measure the results we attain by the picture we carry in our mind and of course there will be a despair not only have you been ignoring your calling, but you are also not where you envision yourself to be. Is time to break those barriers in a very simple way. Where were you a year ago? really think about it where you as wise, strong, happy as you are today? if the answer is yes there you have it you are actually moving forward stop measuring yourself by your ideal self and measure yourself by how far you have came from where you started. If the answer was no okay you might be in a situation where you accumulated debt, sadness, depressions, anxiety all within the last year. You are still here not only you made it through your toughest of days but you are also building resilience that will give you wisdom, compassion and empathy for other people to better serve humanity.
Stop living in the gap look how far you have came and everything that has had to happen for you to be here in this exact moment with the curiosity to read this and for me to write it lets co-create lets help the world be a lighter better place because our time is limited and the wonders about life is the ability to feel so why not go out and feel what it feels like to be an abundant being seeking to just play create and transcend.