Overcoming Imposter Syndrome: A Challenge for REAL Leaders

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Welcome back to another edition of our weekly LinkedIn newsletter on REAL (Resilient, Empowering, & Authentic) Leadership. Today, we're examining a topic that's often whispered about but rarely confronted head-on: Imposter Syndrome.

What is Imposter Syndrome?

Imposter Syndrome is a psychological pattern where individuals doubt their skills, talents, or accomplishments and have a persistent fear of being exposed as a "fraud". Despite external evidence of their competence, those experiencing this syndrome remain convinced that they do not deserve the success they have achieved. Almost all leaders suffer from this at one time or another. It happened to me when I returned to academic education after a long absence, and sometimes when I am faced with new situations, or being part of a new group that I don’t know well, or with people I feel have more knowledge or expertise than I have. In all of these situations I have perfomed perfectly well, realising afterwards that my fears were completely unfounded and that most of the time I exceeded expectations – even my own!

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How Does Imposter Syndrome Manifest in Leadership?

Imposter Syndrome can be a silent saboteur in leadership roles. One of its most common manifestations is Over-Delegation. Leaders, fearing they might make mistakes, might delegate tasks excessively, even those they are more than capable of handling. This not only deprives them of growth opportunities but can also overwhelm team members.

On the flip side, there's Micromanagement. Leaders, anxious about their perceived inadequacies, might feel the need to control every tiny detail. This excessive oversight can stifle the creativity and independence of their team members.

Another manifestation is Avoiding Decision-Making. Leaders might find themselves procrastinating or sidestepping decisions. This isn't out of laziness but rather a fear of making the wrong choice and being exposed as a fraud.

Lastly, there's the tendency to Downplay Success. Even when a project is successful, leaders might attribute it to luck or the effort of their team, unable to internalize and accept their role in that success.

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Recognizing Imposter Syndrome in Colleagues

Imagine walking into the office of a colleague, Martin. You've always admired his work ethic. But lately, you've noticed a change. He's often the first to arrive and the last to leave, burning the midnight oil. When you commend his dedication, he brushes it off, saying he's just "trying to keep up". You've seen him hesitate in meetings, second-guessing his decisions, and often seeking validation. It's not the confident Martin you once knew. This change in behaviour, this constant self-doubt and overcompensation, might be signs of him grappling with Imposter Syndrome.

Why is it Detrimental?

Imposter Syndrome doesn't just affect the individual; it has ripple effects throughout the organization. When leaders are constantly second-guessing themselves, it can stifle innovation. The fear of making mistakes means taking fewer risks, leading to a stagnant environment where creativity is curbed. This insecurity can also trickle down to the team. When the leader is unsure, it can create an atmosphere of uncertainty, leading to low morale among team members. Furthermore, the need to overcompensate can lead to inefficient work practices. Spending unnecessary hours on tasks or redoing work out of fear of it not being "perfect" can waste valuable time and resources.

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10 Practical Steps to Overcome Imposter Syndrome

1. Acknowledge the Feelings: The first step in solving a problem is recognizing it exists.

2. Seek Feedback: Constructive criticism from people you trust can provide a more realistic view of your skills.

3. Set Realistic Goals: Unrealistic goals can set you up for perceived failure.

4. Celebrate Small Wins: Every achievement, no matter how small, is a step in the right direction.

5. Talk About It: Sometimes, just talking about your fears can put them in perspective.

6. Stop the Comparison Game: Your journey is your own; comparing it to others' is futile.

7. Accept that Perfection is a Myth: Mistakes are a part of growth.

8. Practice Self-Compassion: Be as kind to yourself as you would be to a friend.

9. Seek Professional Help: Sometimes, talking to a psychologist can provide invaluable insights.

10. Lead by Example: Show your team that it's okay to be vulnerable and human.

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Ensuring Your Team Don't Fall into the Trap

Picture this: It's a Monday morning team meeting, and you decide to address the elephant in the room. You share your own experiences around Imposter Syndrome, creating an environment of trust. This openness encourages your team members, like Martin, to share their insecurities. By fostering such an environment, you ensure that your team members feel safe discussing their feelings without judgment. Regular feedback sessions are introduced, where team members are given constructive feedback, helping them understand their value. Moreover, every small achievement, be it a project milestone or a team member's personal achievement, is celebrated. This not only boosts morale but also ensures that team members recognize and value their contributions.

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Rise Above & Lead: Your 3-Step Challenge!

I want to leave you with a challenge. REAL Leadership is not just about absorbing knowledge; it's about taking actionable steps. Here's a 3-step challenge designed to help you confront and conquer Imposter Syndrome:

1. Self-Assessment: Reflect inwardly. Have you ever felt like an imposter in your role? When did it happen and why? How will you recognise it next time it happens? And how will you counteract it?

2. Engage with Your Team: Initiate a candid conversation about Imposter Syndrome in your next team meeting. Ask others if they felt it and when. Outline their strengths and competencies which prove their fears were unfounded. Remind them of times when they portrayed those skills.

3. Implement One Change: Choose one of the 10 steps and put it into action this week. Share your journey and insights with us using the hashtag #REALLeadership.

Dive in, take the challenge, and let's transform leadership together!

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Siondróm Pasadóra a Shárú: Dúshlán do FíOR Cheannairí

Fáilte ar ais go dtí eagrán eile dár nuachtlitir seachtainiúil LinkedIn ar FíOR Cheannaireacht. Inniu, tá muid ag féachaint ar ábhar a chuirtear faoi cheilt go minic agus gur annamh a thugtar aghaidh air: Siondróm Pasadóra.

Cad é Siondróm Pasadóra?

Is patrún síceolaíoch é Siondróm Pasadóra ina bhfuil amhras ar dhaoine faoina gcuid scileanna, buanna nó éachtaí agus ina bhfuil eagla leanúnach orthu go nochtfaí iad mar dhuine bréige. In ainneoin fianaise sheachtrach ar a n-inniúlacht, tá siad siúd a bhfuil an siondróm seo orthu, fós cinnte nach bhfuil an rath atá bainte amach acu, tuillte acu. Buaileann an aicíd seo beagnach gach ceannaire ó am go ham. Tharla sé dom féin nuair a d'fhill mé ar an oideachas acadúil tar éis blianta fada, agus uaireanta nuair a bhíonn mé i suíomhanna nua, nó mar chuid de ghrúpa nua nach bhfuil aithne mhaith agam orthu, nó le daoine gur dóigh liom go bhfuil níos mó eolais nó saineolais acu ná mar atá agam féni. Gach uair ar tharla sé seo dom, d’éirigh go breá liom agus thuig mé ina dhiaidh nach raibh bunús ar bith leis an eagla a bhí orm. Go deimhin d’éirigh níos fearr liom ná mar a shamhlaigh gach duine roimh réidh – mé féin san áireamh!

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Conas a n-Aithneofá Siondróm Pasadóra ?i gCeannaire?

Is féidir le Siondróm Pasadóra a bheith ina sabaitéir ciúin i bhforbairt ceannaire. Ceann de na comharthaí is coitianta atá aige ná an Dealagáideacht Iomarcach. D'fhéadfadh ceannairí, a mbeadh eagla orthu go ndéanfadh siad féin botúin, tascanna a tharmligean go minic, fiú iad siúd a bhfuil siad breá ábalta déileáil leo iad féin. Ní hamháin go gceileann sé seo deiseanna fáis orthu féin, ach is féidir leis an iomarca brú a chuir ar bhaill foirne eile freisin.

Ar an taobh eile de, tá Mionbhainistiú ann. B'fhéidir go mbraithfeadh ceannairí atá imníoch faoina cumais féin, gur gá gach mionsonra beag bídeach a rialú. Is féidir leis an maoirseacht iomarcach seo cruthaitheacht agus neamhspleáchas a mball foirne a mhaolú.

Léiriú eile is ea Cinnidh a Sheachaint. D'fhéadfadh ceannairí a bheith ag seachaint nó ag cur cinntí ar an méar fhada. Ní as leisce é seo, ach ar eagla go ndéanfaidh siad ar an rogha mícheart agus go mbéarfar amach orthu mar dhuine bréige.

Ar deireadh, tá an claonadh ann Beag is Fiú a dhéanamh dá gcuid éachtaí. Fiú nuair a éiríonn go maith le tionscadal, d'fhéadfadh ceannaire a rá go raibh an t-ádh leo, nó gur de bharr iarracht a bhfoirne é, gan a bheith in ann úinéireacht a ghlacadh ar an rath atá orthu sa ról.

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Siondróm Pasadóra a Aithint i gComhghleacaithe

Samhlaigh siúl isteach in oifig do chomhghleacaí, Martin. Bhí meas agat i gcónaí ar a eitic oibre. Ach le déanaí, tá athrú tugtha faoi deara agat. Is minic gurb é an chéad duine san oifig ar maidin é agus an duine deireanach a imíonn tráthnóna. Nuair a mholann tú a dhúthracht, déanann sé beag is fiú de, ag rá nach bhfuil sé ach "ag iarraidh coinneáil suas" le cúrsaí. Feiceann tú go mbíonn leisce air labhairt amach i gcruinnithe, faoina thuairimí a roinnt agus go minic níl muinín aige as féin. Ní hé an Martin muiníneach céanna é a raibh eolas agat air tráth. D'fhéadfadh an t-athrú iompair seo, an féin-amhras agus an leithscéalacht leanúnach, a bheith ina chomharthaí go bhfuil Siondróm Pasadóra aige.

Cén fáth a bhfuil sé seo Díobhálach?

Ní hamháin go dtéann Siondróm Pasadóra i bhfeidhm ar an duine féin; ach tá tionchar aige ar fud na heagraíochta. Nuair a bhíonn ceannairí i gcónaí mí chinnte fúthu féin, is féidir leo bac a chuir ar an nuálaíocht. Ciallaíonn an eagla a bhaineann le botúin a dhéanamh go nglactar níos lú rioscaí, rud a fhágann go bhfuil timpeallacht stálaithe ann ina ndéantar an chruthaitheacht a chriogadh. Is féidir leis an mhíchinnteacht seo tionchar diúltach a bheith aige ar an bhfoireann freisin. Nuair nach bhfuil an ceannaire cinnte, is féidir leis atmaisféar éiginnteachta a chruthú, rud a fhágann go bhfuil meanma íseal i measc bhaill na foirne. Ina theannta sin, d'fhéadfadh cleachtais oibre neamh éifeachtúla a bheith mar thoradh ar an ngá atá leis an róchúiteamh. Is féidir am agus acmhainní luachmhara a chur amú má chaitear an iomarca ama ar thascanna, nó ar obair a athdhéanamh ar eagla nach mbeadh sé "foirfe".

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10 gCéim Phraiticiúil chun Siondróm Pasadóra a Shárú

1. Na Mothúcháin a aithint: Is é an chéad chéim chun fadhb a réiteach ná a aithint go bhfuil sé ann.

2. Aiseolas a lorg: Is féidir le h-aiseolas chriticiúil ó dhaoine a bhfuil muinín agat astu léargas níos réadúla a thabhairt duit ar do chuid cumais.

3. Socraigh Spriocanna Réalaíocha: Is féidir le spriocanna neamhréadúla dlús a chuir leis an mhothú gur theip ort.

4. Déan Buanna Beaga a Cheiliúradh: Is céim sa treo ceart é gach éacht, cuma cé chomh beag is atá sé.

5. Labhair faoi: Uaireanta, is féidir le comhrá maith an dochar a bhaint as an imní atá ort.

6. Stop ag Déanamh Comparáidí: Is é seo do thuras sainiúil féin; ní fiú a bheith go do chuir féin i gcomparáid le daoine eile.

7. Níl Aon Cheo ‘Foirfe’: Is cuid den fhás iad na botúin.

8. Déan Féinmheas a chleachtadh: Bí chomh cineálta leat féin agus a bheifeá le cara.

9. Cuardaigh Comhairle Gairmiúil: Uaireanta, is féidir le seisiún le comhairleoir léargais luachmhara a thabhairt duit fút féin.

10. Déan Beart De Réir Briathar: Lériigh don fhoireann nach dochar a bheith leochaileach agus daonna scaití.

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Déan cinnte nach mbeireann an aicíd ar d'fhoireann

Samhlaigh seo: Ag cruinniú foirne maidin Dé Luain socraíonn tú labhairt faoin eilifint sa seomra. Roinneann tú do thaithí féin maidir le Siondróm Pasadóra, ag cothú timpeallacht muiníne dod’ fhoireann. Spreagann an oscailteacht seo do bhaill foirne, cosúil le Martin, chun a n-imní féin a roinnt. Trí thimpeallacht den sórt sin a chothú, cinntíonn tú go mbraitheann do bhaill foirne sábháilte ag plé a gcuid mothúchán féin. Buaileann sibh faoi seisiúin aiseolais rialta a thabhairt isteach, áit a dtugtar aiseolas cuiditheach do bhaill foirne, rud a chabhraíonn leo a luach féin a thuiscint. Ina theannta sin, déantar ceiliúradh ar gach éacht beag, bíodh sé ina chloch mhíle tionscadail, nó ina éacht pearsanta ag ball foirne. Ní amháin go gcuireann sé seo le meanma na foirne, ach cinntíonn sé freisin go n-aithníonn agus go gcuireann baill foirne luach ar a gcuid iarrachtaí pearsanta.

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Léirigh do Cheannaireacht: Dúshlán 3 Chéim Duit!

Seo dúshlán duit. ?Ní amháin go mbaineann FíOR Cheannaireacht le heolas a shú isteach; baineann sé le céimeanna inghníomhaithe a ghlacadh. Seo dúshlán 3 chéim duit atá curtha le chéile chun cabhrú leat aghaidh a thabhairt ar Shiondróm Pasadóra agus an ceann is fearr a fháil air:

1. Féinmheasúnú: Déan machnamh pearsanta. Ar mhothaigh tú riamh mar Phasadóir? Cén uair ar tharla sé agus cén fáth? Cén chaoi an aithneoidh tú é an chéad uair eile a tharlóidh sé? Agus conas a chuirfidh tú faoi chois é?

2. Gríosaigh d'Fhoireann: Cuir tús le comhrá macánta faoi Shiondróm Pasadóra i do chéad chruinniú foirne eile. Fiafraigh do dhaoine eile ar mhothaigh siad é agus cathain. Labhair leo faoina gcuid láidreachtaí agus a n-inniúlachtaí, ag míniú nach bhfuil aon bhunús leis an eagla a bhíonn orthu. Cuir i gcuimhne dóibh na hamanna gur léirigh siad na scileanna sin.

3. Cur Athrú Amháin i bhFeidhm: Roghnaigh ceann de na 10 gcéim thuasluaite agus cuir i ngníomh é an tseachtain seo. Roinn do scéal agus do léargais linn ag baint úsáide as an haischlib #REALLeadership.

Seo leat, glac leis an dúshlán, agus déanaimis an FíOR cheannaireacht a chleachtadh le chéile!

Má bhain tú tairbhe as an alt seo tabhair ‘like’ dó, déan trácht air agus roinn é le do thoil! Cuirimis cúis na FíOR Cheannaireachta chun cinn le chéile!

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