Overcoming Anxiety by Creating Conversational Presentations

8 Steps to Overcoming Anxiety and Empowering Your Audience

Introduction:

Ever felt that pang of nervousness before a presentation? You're not alone. But what if I told you there's a way to turn that anxiety into confidence, and your audience into eager participants? Inspired by my work on an upcoming book "The Nervousness Cure," let's explore how you can create presentations that not only captivate but also empower your audience.

Step 1: Know Your Audience

First things first – get to know who you're speaking to. Understanding their interests and needs lays the foundation for a connection that makes your presentation truly impactful. If you're not sure, start by asking:

"What are you hoping to get out of this presentation?"

Step 2: Start with a Compelling Story

While a great story that frames your content is a memorable way to start. There are many ways you can use a story to inspire and persuade. Remember that a great presentation puts your audience at the center of your story and makes them the hero.

Start with a question to establish their needs or begin with what you already know. For instance, if I were presenting this content I might start with:

Q: How many of you love giving presentations?

INTRO: Over the last decade in every course I lead I find that people have been given very little training to create memorable presentations and manage their nervousness. Today...

Step 3: Make It Conversational

Forget the one-way street of traditional presentations. Invite questions, encourage discussions, and create an atmosphere where everyone feels like they're part of the conversation. This can seem scary at first, but trust me -- you're an expert in having a conversation. It's giving a one-way presentation that creates the most nervousness and most people have very little practice in the skill as compared to conversational presentations. You might say:

Intro: Before I get started I want to let you know that I encourage questions, feedback, and contributions. This is about you, not me. I've been through this workshop before.

Q: We have two options. #1. I can talk for the entire presentation today and leave a few minutes for you to ask questions at the end. #2. We can have a more interactive conversation and explore your questions, challenges, and successes. Who wants #1? Raise your hands. Okay, we'll go with interaction then!

Step 4: Empower Your Audience

Here's a secret: Your audience wants to be the heroes of the story. Pose questions that challenge them, inspire them, and make them feel like they can make a difference. If you're presenting a solution to something ask:

Q: How are you currently solving this issue?

Q: What's the one thing you haven't been able to solve?

Q: What would your day be like if you didn't have this obstacle?

Having your audience define their own obstacles sets them up for growth and helps them imagine a world that is made better by learning, adopting, and utilizing the solutions you bring to the meeting.

Step 5: Use Visuals Wisely

Visuals can enhance your message, but less is more. Choose images or videos that complement your narrative without overwhelming your audience. Apple does a great job with this in their meetings. Remember, complex details should be left behind in a document or used in work sessions. In a presentation or overview, the data should be woven into a story that helps the audience understand the strategic direction, the road ahead, or the challenges to be solved.

Step 6: Practice Mindfulness

This is easy to say and harder to remember. Take a deep breath. Visualize success. Mindfulness techniques can help calm those pre-presentation jitters and keep you focused on delivering your message. Don't have a mindfulness practice? Try this:

Box Breathing: Box breathing, also known as square breathing, is a relaxation technique that involves breathing in for a count of four, holding the breath for a count of four, exhaling for a count of four, and then holding the breath again for a count of four. The pattern forms a square or box shape, hence the name. This method can help reduce stress and anxiety by promoting deep, rhythmic breathing and calming the nervous system.

Step 7: Embrace Improvisation

Sometimes, the best moments happen off-script. Be open to improvisation, and let the natural flow of conversation guide your presentation. Over the last decade of teaching and improvisational approach for business, this one skill has been shown to reduce speaking anxiety and increase interest more than any other skill I teach. How can you use it?

Create a conversational atmosphere -- this will lead to opportunities to improvise when people ask questions, give suggestions, and offer feedback.

Ask the audience what they want to hear next.

This is a bold way of presenting that allows the audience to choose their own adventure when it comes to the presentation. Just like the "Choose Your Own Adventure" books -- the engagement and interest that this generates is outstanding.

Step 8: Seek Feedback and Learn

Feedback is your friend. Embrace it, learn from it, and use it to grow as a presenter. Each presentation is an opportunity to improve and connect with your audience on a deeper level.

1. If you start by asking what they want to know and listing the topics on a whiteboard or presentation, you can check at the end to see what is left to cover.
2. Ask what they would have liked to dive deeper into. This allows you to follow up or create another meeting, presentation, or workshop.
3. Send out a survey. This is the best way to improve the flow of meetings, all-hands presentations, brainstorms, etc.

Conclusion:

Presentations don't have to be nerve-wracking experiences. By following these eight steps, you can transform your presentations into meaningful conversations that leave a lasting impression on your audience. So take a deep breath, step into the spotlight, and let your story shine.

If you'd like to create a workshop or book a presentation for your team -- please reach out. Communication training for leadership and teams is some of my favorite work.

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