OVERCOME YOUR FAILURE

LIFE IS UNPRIDICTABLE- we need to move on and learn things understanding past and working on future

Feeling hurt and sad when you’ve failed to achieve something, regardless of how big or small it may be, is only natural and there’s little point in dwelling on past failures. Nowadays people put too much effort into avoiding failure and this does nothing apart from lead to painful situations.

to overcome failure, one has to be strong enough to accept things.

1. Don’t Feel Threatened By Failure

Have you ever heard the saying, “Once a failure, always a failure?”

Unfortunately, too many people tend to take this literally to the point where they start thinking they’ll never succeed again. Such negative thoughts serve to do nothing but hold you back.

If you’re to move forward and lead a fulfilling life, you’ve got to overcome such thoughts and replace them with positive ones.

2. There is Nothing Wrong with Feeling Bad

When you fail to achieve your goals, deep feelings of anxiety, sadness, shame, and anger take over – it’s only natural. In fact, you could go as far as saying it’s important to feel hurt after a failure. Rather than forcefully suppressing these feelings and emotions, use them to your advantage. Instead of feeling bad and wallowing in your own self-pity, Use these feelings as your drive to do better and to improve future performance.

3. Develop Healthy Habits to Stay Healthy

If you haven’t already, start a healthy habit. Go for walks, practice breathing exercises, take a bubble bath, meet with family and friends; anything that keeps your mind clear and free from negative thoughts. Draw up a list of healthy habits or activities that you might enjoy.

Who knows, one of these healthy habits might even be the secret to your success!

4. Avoid Picking Up Bad Habits

Sometimes, people turn to things like drugs or alcohol in an attempt to dull the pain that they feel. Ultimately, drug and alcohol addiction will just make things worse and do more harm than good. It’s best to avoid picking up such bad habits.

5. Take Reasonable Responsibility for Your Failure

Don’t make excuses for your failures. Make an effort to find out exactly why things went the way they did, accept any mistakes you may have made, and focus on learning from them.

6. Study Yourself

Many people feel disheartened after a failure, while many others take failures as an opportunity to learn about and improve themselves. By digging deep and learning about yourself you’re able to turn your failures into valuable life lessons .

7. Keep Looking Ahead

Don’t get stuck focusing on the things that went wrong. Thinking about the same thing over and over again won’t do you any good.

8. Take Inspiration from Failures that Led to Success

History is filled with stories of men and women who’ve all failed at some point in their lives but went on to become major successes in their respective areas. The one thing these people all had in common was that they didn’t let their failures stop them from experimenting and trying out new things.

9. Learn to Accept Your Failures

Running away from failures or trying to avoid them will never teach you anything. Go beyond your comfort zone, explore new avenues, don’t think about the rejection that you may face and come to terms with the fact that you too can fail. As you move ahead in life, you will come to realize that failure is simply a part of life.