Outer View
Olivia Podobea
?? Insight & Transformation Coach; ?? Soft Skills Trainer; ?? Clarity to achieve your objectives; ?? Personal and professional exponential growth
People talk
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They met in the neighborhood, probably coming or going to the market. And I’m sure you know that people talk. Not because they mean harm, but because it’s easier to make small-talk on subjects you know – like other people.
I realized that many people live under the impression that I don’t have struggles, that I don’t go through challenges. That my life is only made out of nice things, feelings or events. But this can’t be any more wrong.
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Actions and feelings
The first thing that makes me look like a careless person is the fact that I don’t ask for help often. Or not at all. I have a close circle of friends and family that are there for me so, naturally, I won’t go asking for help from everyone I know.
The truth is that I do have problems. I do worry. For me, 2020 ended with losing someone very dear to me, with a funeral.
But when I meet people I smile and I do it with my entire heart. And it’s not a mask – I feel like smiling, like being cheerful and sociable. This is the result of years and years of training myself, of understanding and working with my feelings and actions. I only react in a certain way because I feel like it and this takes daily training, daily coaching – from myself, with myself.
The role of coaching
Coaching can help you too. It can teach you how to put on an authentic smile no matter how you are feeling inside.
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