Our Inner Blue Print
We all read faces, we do so from the moment we meet someone. We search the face for clues that helps us get a sense of the person to whom we are speaking too. Indeed, the face serves as the exterior design of our inner blue print. This blue print gives us immediate insight about what makes people tick and why. It gives us clues about our unique personality, innate abilities and talents. A person’s unique traits are readily apparent even at birth.
From a Personologists viewpoint, we genetically inherited tendencies from our parents. However, the home environment and personal circumstances we experience while growing up can provide major influences that heighten or modify both our positive and negative tendencies.
In a world where many people spend their lives in careers that do not match their innate talents. The structure of the face gives you vital clues about your innate gifts. It’s your GPS (global positioning system), acting as a reminder when you drift off course. Simply look at your face to find out where you need to go or what you need to do. For example, the rounded outer rim of the ear indicates a love of music. Individuals with square chins love debate, are good at mediation, or enjoy fighting for a cause. The close set eyes indicate the love of detail, often seen in dentists, medical specialists, accountants, psychologist or any career that is more detailed focused. When the outer corner of the eye is lower than the inner corner, this would be a good trait to have for a career that requires precision such text or film editing, construction workers, engineers or dentists. When the outer edge of the eyebrow flares upwards, this is someone who has an artistic ability.
I met a young man at an event who was in a wheel chair. I felt compelled to ask him what his plans were for his career. With a shrug of the shoulders he said he didn’t really know. Noticing he had the precision trait (outer corner of the eye lower than the inner corner) also aesthetic appreciation (flat underside of eyebrow) I suggested he might want to consider taking up editing or making documentary films. His mother who was standing nearby said in amazement “I can’t believe you are saying that, next week he picks up the top award at school for the best documentary film.” The young man raised his fists and said “Yes, I’m on the right track.”
Simply put, learning how to read faces connects the dots, it validates much of what we know about ourselves. Knowing more about the people we meet, creates a better understanding of ourselves and style of communication. It’s a tool that puts us back on track with our lives. Plus it helps couples better understand and communicate with each other.