WILL OUR DAY END WELL?

Not every day ends well. That is reality. We can change our ways and work to end our day well.

?As we move forward in the new year, we must identify our priorities and personal goals and schedule our time wisely. When we have a frustrating day, we should focus on our intention and genuine thoughtfulness. We will treat ourselves and others well when we move in this direction.

But what about preparing to end our day well? As a Safety Professional, there are several days that I leave work and wonder why I had such a bad day. I also tell everyone that safety professionals do not have authority, so we have to influence WITHOUT authority. That means I don’t make the final decisions, but I have to influence leadership and employees to make the right decisions successfully. Does that happen every day? Heck, NO!!! In weeks and months, I feel I am not being successful and able to influence the person or people successfully. This causes frustration and sadness. But there are ways to improve the end of our day and the beginning of a new day.

?Here is how I approach it.

1. Yesterday ended last night!?This doesn’t mean we will forget that the things we struggled with will automatically change. It means yesterday is over, and today is a new day!
2. Treat Those You Disrespect With Respect.?If you had a frustrating time with a person or people, think about how to treat them respectfully the next time you see them. Think this way:?If they respect you, respect them. If they disrespect you, RESPECT them. Seriously, don’t EVER lower your integrity to anyone.
3. Respect Your Limitations.?If you’re like me, I bet you’d like more out of life than you are currently experiencing. Perhaps you’re less than fully satisfied with your progress. Come up with What’s getting in your way? What’s limiting you? Do you know? How will you remove it if you don’t know what’s limiting you? Remember, to be influential, you must have their respect.

How we respond to our day determines whether it ends well or not. Understanding this, ending our day well will be the key to beginning the next day well.