Opportunity missed that could have changed your life?
Life is not a perfect square.
The nature of humankind also includes our mistakes that affect our life. Always, there is a process of up and downs in circulation. Regretting a mistake is a good thing but taking a long time for that will make us miserable.
There is a saying "There is no 'if' in this world". Analyze the mistake and find a solution.
Clinging to the past, will not bring any fortune.
?Past mistakes cannot be neglected and we've to consider it as an experience. We should learn the lesson of how to lead the future. There is no use in crying over spilled milk.
?Our entire life should not be overtaken by a single mistake. If regretting is going to be this long, then this is going to be the biggest mistake.
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Thank you?...Overcoming the past is not going to be easy. But, without trying we won't know the result. Try to find a solution and put an end to the worries with a bold heart.
If not, then this past regret will become a complete weakness. When we see the moon in the night sky, it looks beautiful which will calm our mind. But, if we think the moon's beauty lies in its perfectness, then we're the fools.
Even nature has its own flaws. We should accept our flaws, mistakes, and failures to face the reality. There is a future that will have more opportunities.
?Is it good to miss the future for the ended past?
Think it calmly and definitely there will be an answer to accept the past. Trying to regret ourselves is not going to help in a positive way.
Do you want to add a word or two?....
Every single person in this world is not a perfectionist or the best.
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All the people had some past events either with big or small mistakes. There will be two balls in the court- one is accepting the past to have a future move on and another one is to get jailed in the past memories.
?Also, no one can guarantee the future to be always positive.
One day the good future will also become a past. Whether it's good or bad, think past as experience, try to live happily in the present, and work for the future. But without risks and challenges, there will be no interest.
?Even in games, we will win it after facing so many hurdles. The best is to live the future by leaving the past regrets in its past.
Your comments........?
First and foremost don’t dwell on the missed opportunity or it will take longer to repair your current situation, no one can change history!! I’m sorry you are going through a hard time right now. If someone is abusing you, do your best to get away from them.
If you can’t right now, at least get a clear vision of what you want your life to look like and when you are doing whatever you do every day, keep that vision in your mind and plan ways to bring yourself closer to your vision for your life.
Our brains have a way of subconsciously helping us out and finding new opportunities and helping us to align with what we think about, but you have to do your part and think on good things to come!!
It works both ways if you think constantly about what went wrong things will more than likely get more negative, but if you think constantly about your good future to come, it will be more likely to grow into what you want. Nature teaches us this; when you feed a plant sunshine and water, it grows!
Think to yourself that the best is yet to come, then one day maybe some weeks from now or maybe some years from now, you will realize you’ve moved on and away from whatever you feel like you missed out on and it won’t be so painful.
Cyber hugs!! I’ve been there!!
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3 年So I'm wondering, (reading between the lines of what you say,) if you are perhaps suffering from condemnation because of what YOU deem to be a failure. There's a very big difference between conviction and condemnation. CONVICTION is information about ourselves and our actions that leads to repentance.. ?But CONDEMNATION is from an accusing, judgmental pointing finger Spirit that doesn’t come from God, that is out to, as it were, “condemn us to and as a failure” by constantly hammering on our front door to remind us that once we messed up! Forgiveness is a FREE gift but it's faith that appropriates it to us. STAY strong, my friend. All isn't lost. In life, I feel there are certain upgrades, times at which our perspective evolves. The evolution can come at the cost of a mere idea. One thought can change and upgrade your level of consciousness, forever. One of this evolution’s came to me when I learned how to harness and utilize energy. One time a girl broke my heart. I could have held regret at a missed opportunity. But, instead, I used this as fuel for my personal development; really looking harder at myself than I ever had before. Another time a good friend screwed me over on a business deal. I could have held pity for myself. Instead, I used this as fuel to create a new business, with motivation to make it bigger than ever before. One day I was planning on studying for two hours after my work session. I went to get a pizza after work before studying. I ordered the large pizza deal the restaurant had and ordered only one topping. I forgot that the deal was for two toppings and I missed out on a free topping. I could have called myself an idiot (I did). However, I made myself study for two more extra hours than I had planned. The events that happen do not have to be related. I can stub my toe and force myself to read an hour of Mastery. Whenever a seemingly unfortunate event happens, I use the energy and force myself to do more than I had planned for that day. The energy can be wasted on stress and regret, or you can use it to you advantage. Does not matter what happens, I can control how I use my time. I hold myself accountable. If I get screwed over, whose fault is it? Mine If my heart is broken, whose fault is it? Mine If I forget my second free pizza topping, whose fault is it? You guessed it, mine. Love is a choice whether we believe it or not. WE choose to nurture relationships; we decide to make those phone calls, to take those plane trips, to keep relationships intake. WE choose to love so we can be loved. So at the end of the day when I experience hurt or frustration, these are always caused by my actions or choices. I will literally study two extra hours for forgetting my second pizza topping. I will literally meditate for an hour when I feel betrayed. I will write ideas down for everyone I think of and fail to write it down and end up forgetting it. Bonzai (Japanese cheer or war cry.)