The only person you are destined to become is the person YOU decide to be
The only person you are destined to become is the person YOU decide to be. Ralph Waldo Emerson
In this life, you have been given free will. Your destiny is not decided for you; you can be whoever and whatever you want to be. Nothing is set in stone. It is totally up to you.
So, why do so many people end up being something other than what they truly want to be? The answer is, because of the decisions that they make in life. Every decision that you make carries with it a specific consequence; and each one sets your life on a different path.
But you have to remember, just because your decisions have put you on the wrong path, that doesn't mean that you can't change paths anytime you want to. It is up to you. It may be hard and the road my be long,but you can decide to travel it anytime you want to. Be who you want to be!