The one thing you should long for in your life

Altruism.

Altruism is the principle and moral practice of concern for the happiness of other human beings and/or animals, resulting in a quality of life both material and spiritual.

It is a traditional virtue in many cultures and a core aspect of various religious traditions and secular worldviews, though the concept of "others" toward whom concern should be directed can vary among cultures and religions.

In an extreme case, altruism may become a synonym of selflessness which is the opposite of selfishness.

Yesterday when recording the first episode of our newest podcast “Purpose by Youcanevent”, we’ve discussed various angles on living an altruistic life.

In life, we all long for mental clarity, spiritual calmness, emotional freedom, but we don’t actually know how to pursue that, or what are the necessary steps needed in order to be in a better position to achieve those mentioned above.

After speaking with Tina Greenbaum, the author of the book Mastery Under Pressure - All that stands between you and your goals is… YOU,  the only thing that I can think of is about the word Altruism.

In a world where speed is king, and competition is higher than before, what will keep us sane, and stable in every location of the world is by propelling a chain of Altruism that will guide us and build a global humble environment where the person from the top always, helps the one from the bottom.

Just look at these stats:

Stats via Nami.org

Imagine that each of the 1 in every 5 adults in America could experience, an Altruistic attitude by someone around them. Pulling them into the right direction of living a life full of hope, light, and freedom?

As seen on the statistics mentioned above one-half of all the chronic illnesses start at the age 14, what this tells us is that people, and society in general don’t know how to fight this collective discomfort neither understanding of helping each other.

Mental health and brain performance is a matter of spiritual comfort with the inner-self. Most could say that is also genetic, but the reality is that’s not.

If you:

• Meditate
• Exercise
• Give love
• Practice kindness
• Eat the right food, have a clean nutrition
• Try artistic behaviors like singing or painting
• Stretch 
• Spend time alone to reflect
• Not drinking huge amounts of alcohol or food

You’ll feed your brain and your spirit with the tools necessary to be stable.

See being altruistic, almost like being the coach of yourself and taking the time to massage and give love to your inner self.

“To give love, you have to love yourself first.”

If you coach yourself to practice these things, you’ll become more understandable in regards to other people, to obstacles that show up in your life, to disagreements in relationships.

You know why?

Because ultimately, the biggest love you have it’s your own self-love.

And there’s nothing wrong with that.

Myself at Youcanevent, I’m obsessed with coaching myself, my co-founder, and employees, even if that means having them finding different life paths then working in Youcanevent.

That is the type of company, vision, and legacy I want to build. One where everyone has an extreme chameleonic sense to be Altruistic, anticipate situations and always make the other part feel safe and comfortable.

This value, Altruism, will guide me and my team through all the cycles of growth and will solidify our mission of connecting the world through the celebration, with true kindness and belief.

Now the second part of this, is how can you fuel your life with light right?

Purpose.

Altruism walks hand-in-hand with purpose, and purpose is your future “promised treasure” that removes the anxiety of living life.

If you don’t have a clear purpose join one.

I invite you to join our cause to connect the world through celebration, and bring humans together through amazing In-Real-Life experiences.

There are so many beautiful feelings in a life filled with purpose.

It attracts the glow that you are looking for.

Every morning is bright.

One of the songs we composed at Youcanevent, that shares the vision of our mission “Connecting the world through celebration” has the following passage:

“Everytime that you feel

Without a light,

Just remember that your spirit

Inspires the world!

Be comfortable with the unknown,

Dream big and

Lead the world!

Now is time

to cross the line,

Feel the flow

Unleash your soul.”

The magnitude of what you are meant to do in life if you practice these 2 values (being altruistic, and pursue purpose) will lead you to a whole new level of freedom.

If you are interested in knowing more about living a life with purpose, sign-up on the podcast here and I promise that will be the best minutes spent of your life!

Life is a celebration,

Antonio