One Simple but Revolutionary Understanding that Transforms Life

This is now an established Fact that whatever we do in Life is to achieve Joy and Happiness. The real aim of life is Eternal Happiness.This article proves the statement above in case you have any doubts.Although we are all running after Happiness, why is it that we keep on running throughout life? Why can't we find relaxation and peace every moment we live? Normally when it comes to approaching Business, we try to analyze, contemplate and ensure we create a master plan - remove whatever will not work for us and do what we think will help us achieve our goals. However, when it comes to achieving Happiness we do not try the same - we subconsciously think that achieving our next goal is the only way to Happiness. We just keep running without creating any plan or strategy to achieve the state of Eternal happiness.

The mistake we do in this race is that we directly try to achieve happiness without even contemplating on what is Misery, why misery or negativity exist in life and how to remove it. Have you ever thought this way? The factual truth is we do not need to run after happiness (we have mostly read Happiness is in the Present) but we need to remove the reasons that give us misery. This is the foundation of a Joyful life. If one can understand this, then one can move towards Happiness easily.Talking about reasons of misery, we need to avoid the pitfall most of us fall into. Whenever we feel sad, angry, jealous, fearful etc., we hold others accountable (either an unfavorable event or someone). However, Happiness cannot be achieved without this simple but revolutionary understanding - "If I am Unhappy, I am Responsible". Many might be surprised to hear this. One might think - If someone betrayed me, or if some event lead to financial loss or if any other unfavorable incident happened in life, how can I take accountability because it is clearly some external event that gave me pain and unhappiness.

Then the question that arises is How can I control what is happening outside me? And this is the fact one needs to realize - One cannot control what is Happening outside but One can control what is happening Inside!!How can some people always feel happy? They simply realize the fact that Unhappiness or Happiness is inside - events outside are triggering these energies. If events and people are responsible - how many and how much can you change outside. So these people work on changing themselves and change their response to external events.There is a pattern and understanding of Mind. We need to change this pattern. All we have to do is remove the reasons of unhappiness that lie within (anger, stress, fear, guilt etc) and we will find a life full of joy each and every moment. As soon as we take responsibility of our Lives completely and understand that we are responsible for our Present State of Being and not the external events , Transformation begins.