One Powerful secret to achieve your goal: Clear Intention
Ridhima Dua
Elevate Life Leadership for Mid & High Level Leaders with NLP | Providing New Code NLP Practitioner 180 DAYS mentoring | Customise Corporate Training to achieve Performance using applied NLP | Key Note Speaker
Do you know it's not about achieving the goals, it's about setting them congruently and clearly!?
This summer after the May international event, after holding the space with my mentors globally and observing deep breakthroughs, I took a short vacation. I got ready for more inspiring work and preparing?for an amazing event in August!?
After all, short vacations give you a big kick, and you prepare for another one!?
?While I am getting ready for another big event, I thought to write?all?about achieving goals more simply!?
In life and during my?coaching experience, one of the crucial?topics on which people ask me questions is about achieving goals -
How can I achieve my goals?
Why do we stop in between??
What can drive us from the beginning till the end??
Why do we lack clarity at times??
Let's discover?the most important part - It's not about achieving?the goals but setting them congruently and clearly.?
If we start random, we will get random results and if we start with clarity,? questions, and most importantly intentions, as to why we need to achieve and what we need to achieve, we will get very close to the results we manifest!
Trust me, I have experienced this myself and I can say it works!? ?
Achieving goals is an amazing part of life! It drives you to the next and the next and the next!?
But to get to the next, let's begin with the end in mind (7 Habits, Stephen Covey).??
For you to get clarity, let's start with questions:?
1. What do you want??
I meet so many people and they share stories for hours and at the end, after listening to them, I pause and ask: What do you want now???
I have been in this space myself and I have observed that most people are going round and round in their patterns and stories with less clarity and congruence (and, hence they are discussing with us). There comes the role of a catalyst to ask them, "What do you want"?
And let them come up with some parts and portions of what they want??
Ask yourself at this moment for a specific goal - What do you want?? ??
Do you have clarity in what you want or do you feel like, I am not sure whether I should do this or not??
2. How to check clarity:?
The moment you say that, do you feel a new sensation in your body??
Wait, don't start labeling it as fear!?
Touch that sensation and ask inside self, hey sensation, Are you there to support me in this goal, if you feel the shift in the body, and are somewhat close to settling, and feeling yeah, I think step-by-step, I can go ahead, let's go to the next step then!? ?
?If not, then also proceed with the below questions, and it will help you gain clarity about your goal.?
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What's the intention to do it? Why do you want to achieve this goal?
Of course, you know why you want, but still ask yourself, why?you want??
How will you feel, see & hear about it??
Just keep writing and you will feel a shift in your body and get closer to your manifestation!?
Small Powerful Tip: Visualise this very clearly, strongly, and powerfully. See it closer, as if you are inside it, hear the sounds, and feel the movements in your body!?
Act as if it is happening now!!!?
3. Check Again
Is that what you want, is that what you want, and do you want it for yourself? And then for others!?
You are clear NOW!?
4. What would happen if you don't have it??
This is the opposite question and the most important question! What would happen if you don't achieve this - what would you lose? how would you feel? what would you see? what would you hear? how does not achieving impact you at all levels??
5. What's the one thing you need to change that will?make the?massive shift and get you closer to achieving the?goal?? ?
Answering this itself will create a deeper shift in you and you need to decide today, whether you want to take that massive shift or not.?
If the answer is No, go back to the first question and re-check your congruence.?
I met a leader, quite young, around 38 years old, and he has achieved almost all levels of happiness whether family or profession or health, just because he stuck to one thumb rule, He wanted to stay to his commitment and he kept revising commitment and commitment every day!?
You decide what is the one thing you want to change and use NLP techniques to make it happen!?
Pro-Tip: Remember, the lion also rests to enhance its focus and improve its performance. If in case it comes to rest, stop cribbing, restfully, recharge, and regain the momentum again! Period, if you want it, get it!?
Just do these questions sincerely, and I am sure it will help you with clarity!?
And hey, I do like answering and facilitating your questions around goals, you can write me in the comments or my email address [email protected]
You can book a meeting with us and get closer to your goals with our transformation programs!?
Keep working smarter and harder, until we stop, we don't fail! Just keep doing it!? ?
Thanks and regards
Ridhima Dua
NLP based Coach| Relationship Coach| Coaching Mentor| Coaching Coaches| Coaching Discussions| NLP process expert
5 个月Interesting!
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5 个月Thank you for sharing this process in easy to understand language...it's really helpful ??
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5 个月Amazing read and an even more amazing process! Thank you for sharing!
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