One Good Shot

This weekend I participated in an event I enjoy but don't do very often. Our church had a golf scramble for anyone who wanted to jump in. I own some golf clubs but they are far from a championship set. I've used them for several years when I'm called upon to be in an outing for work, a charity, or just for fun. I've gone with some friends for a couple of rounds too, but they are few and far between.

We had four foursomes and my group went first. It included my dear friend Bob and the Rice brothers - Dave and James. My three teammates were more confident and accomplished than I was. I enjoy golf because you get to be outside for several hours mixed with conversations, laughter, and camaraderie. You see, I don't go golfing with people who are highly competitive or take the game too seriously. That's not because I don't think you should approach the game that way, but I know my limitations and I just frustrate those types of players.

It's been over two years since I pulled out my clubs. I actually took them to the garage and had to brush the dust off of them. I wasn't even sure I had enough golf balls because I was sure to scatter some off one side of the course or another. I knew the day was going to go well when I discovered a windbreaker that was tucked away in my golf bag that I thought I had lost !! I know that has nothing to do with performing on the course, but it was at least one win for the day.

We did well off the first tee and all four of us had shots that went towards the hole. Then . . .

Let's just say the remainder of the round was more of an adventure than trying to place among the top teams. If you're a golfer, the goal is to shoot under par. The winning team shot 6 under par and our team was, well, 12 over par. I wasn't discouraged though because we spent so much time enjoying being with each other.

There was one other thing that people hope for when they hit the links. On one of the holes where you can get the longest drive, I crushed my tee shot. If faded to the right but landed just on the fringe of the fairway and therefore counted in the contest. I had one good shot. It was the kind of shot that gives you the encouragement to tell yourself you should continue to play golf once again. My massive stroke only lasted for mere moments because a player in the next foursome outdrove me.

Isn't that astonishing? Is it that simple?

Yes, it is. Having a small success is far more impactful than a series of failures. We focus far more on our shortcomings than our successes and I think we should turn that around. If you have "one good shot," there's an opportunity to have another one, then another, and then another.

This week take a look for your small successes and then build on them. At the same time, look for the good shots others make as well. Over time, you'll see that you are far more accomplished than you ever thought !!