Once the unawakened twin flame eventually wakes up do they feel that deep sadness in realizing that the love of their life was there wanting them

but now they are with somebody else possibly that could be for decades?

Amy Bergh·  Updated March 6, 2019.  Twin Flame in Union/Meditation & Kundalini Experience

It’s possible. But I hold the belief that due to the mirroring effect if one twin appears to be asleep to the connection, it is likely because the other is not doing the work to remove blind spots within the mind about something. Twins are drawn together when the mind darknesses have faded away. Twin flames are drawn together through the Light of Truth. You cannot move into the Light of Truth if the mind is holding onto too many attachments, identifications, or ideas that block freedom.

Ask yourself what you might be avoiding that could make you happy. If you could create any life you want, what would you do? Is there anything now that is holding you back from making those things happen? What are they? Find your fears that block you from having the life that you desire. This is where you will often find your attachments that need to be seen through. When we are not honest with ourselves, we live a miserable life of hiding in the shadows. We live in the prison of our minds. This is not Truth or freedom. It is not Heaven. It is hell.

Be honest with yourself about everything. Find a way to move towards your heart’s desires without fear. From my experience, due to the mirroring effect, this will clear obstacles between twins. Honoring yourself and your desires is self-love, and it is part of the equation to move into union. We cannot enter into Union with our Twin/God/Truth without honesty. Honesty = Light. Dishonesty = dark. Be true to yourself and union will be much more likely to occur.

Trace back all the places where you might be being dishonest with yourself and not living the life you want. Be willing to look for blind spots. Don’t be afraid. The mind is not what you are anyway. Its fears mean nothing. Attempt to see through all of their layers so they can dissolve and the pure Light of your true Self can enter. In this Light is perfect freedom. That is what you truly are. Anything that is blocking this perception is something that needs to be seen through.