And now...something completely different!
Pedro Rebelo
Driving Growth Through People, Culture & Employer Branding | Leading Impactful Recruitment & Talent Strategies | People-Centric Leadership
On my last post I tried to speak up "loud" for the need to shift the current paradigm we're living, where people are becoming means to an end, instead of making our MISSION to promote, inspire and developing their aspirations, dreams and expectations.
As a friend wrote today, many people read these posts and probably relate themselves but remain in silence. I was expecting true, meaningful and constructive criticism, as well as comments too from everywhere...(by the way, still am).
So, today I decided I was going to share something (completely different) that I came across with some years ago. Although it's different, it strengthens the idea of empowering people's passion, enthusiasm, and boosting a sense of purpose within them.
"The Almost - Sarah Westphal
Even worse than the conviction of the ‘no’ and the uncertainty of the ‘maybe’, is the disillusion of the ‘almost’.
It’s the almost that annoys me, that saddens me, that kills me by bringing all that could have been but wasn’t.
Who almost won is still playing, who almost passed is still studying, who almost died is still alive, who almost loved has never loved.
Just think about the opportunities that have slipped through the fingers, the chances that were lost because of fear, the ideas that will never leave the paper because of this damn habit of living in the autumn.
I sometimes ask myself what makes us choose a lukewarm life; no, it’s not that I ask, I dispute. The answer I know by heart, it’s stamped on the distance and coldness of smiles, the looseness of embraces, the indifference of almost whispered ‘hellos’. There’s an abundance of cowardice and a lacking of courage even to be happy.
Passion burns, love maddens, desire betrays. Maybe these could be good reasons to choose between happiness and the pain, to feel nothing. But they are not. If there was virtue in mediocrity, the sea wouldn’t have waves, days would be cloudy and the rainbow would display shades of grey.
The ‘nothing’ does not enlighten, it doesn’t inspire, it doesn’t afflict nor it soothes, it just amplifies the emptiness that we all carry within ourselves.
It’s not that faith can move the mountains, nor that all the stars are within our reach, for we have to be patient with the things that can’t be changed. However, to choose the preemptive defeat over the doubt of victory is to waste the opportunity of deserving.
For the mistakes there is forgiveness; for the defeats, chance; for the impossible love, time. It does no good to protect an empty heart or to spare the soul. A romance that ends instantaneously and painlessly is not a romance.
Don’t let the nostalgia suffocate you, or the routine comfort you, or the fear stop you from trying.
Don’t trust fate and believe in yourself. Spend more time doing rather than dreaming, living rather than waiting, because even though who almost died is still alive, who almost lives is already dead."
Please, Get out of your comfort zone! Try new and different things everyday, escape your daily routines...get to know your real You and pursue your dreams! have a great weekend.
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1 年Who are you and why are you conning me
Corporate Communications | Content Strategy
9 年great reminder: do not live in between, live one way or the other, choose, dare, have hope but don't wait for it, have faith but do not stop. Thank you.