It is Now or Never – 'Mother’s Day………'
Dr. Ratna Sinha
Coach - (ICF), Behavioral Interventionalist and Leadership and Corporate Training, POSH, DEI&B
It is Now or Never – 'Mother’s Day………'
We see a lot of pictures on social media – earlier it was on ?Facebook but now it has come to LinkedIn too - 'Mother’s Day’, a concept derived from the West. ?
Is it necessary to show all this pomp and show? For, most of us,? am sure Mother’s Day is every-day and every moment.
It is their love -(Mother and Father), that keeps us protected, even when they are no more in the physical world. ??No matter what difficulties or obstacles, I can speak to them even when they are not beside me in this worldly- world. Needless, to say, little do I need an assurance or acknowledgment from someone on love or feel dejected when one shows hatred. If someone expresses a loving gesture or show feelings which are genuine, I do feel good and grateful for the loving person. It just adds on.
Parents love is much more, always remains within us. It is a sacred treasure which is there. They are with us every moment and that is why we move on with confidence, self- belief and love.
When I get to hear weird stories where children have not cared for their parents especially in their old age , I wonder what is wrong ? Or is it Karma ? But, ?then why does one want to bring down their Karma on a reverse cycle. In addition there are those who even say with a regret tone ‘Wish I had given quality time or been with them ……..”.? Who stopped you from doing from what you think today is the right thing, which could be done??
We (sister and myself) have no regrets, as long as my mom was with us, we made every second count. Her childlike innocent smile was the greatest gift which made our heart melt with love and care. When Dad passed away for his heavenly abode, we softly whispered into his ear the previous day as we knew it was matter of hours ....–'You, know we will be with Mom always’.
Humbly, putting across do not regret and say 'I wish I could have been with Mom or speak to her or hug and kiss her’. ?No more wishes but do it Now. Life is unpredictable, you have the choice in your hands, it is Now or Never! ??
Chief Divisional Manager at Tinplate Company of India
6 个月Ratna you have penned your thoughts very well with great and true examples.
Sr. Vice President - Human Resources at Bennett Coleman and Co. Ltd. (Times Group)
6 个月Very nicely articulated Ratna … loved feeling your thought as well as reading it …. Completely agree with your thoughts Cheers
Senior Process Coordinator at TATA STEEL
6 个月Forever & Always- really heart touching mamm
Deputy Chief Manager Procurement
6 个月Heart Touching Words madam....