Nothing falls into your lap

Nothing falls into your lap

It just fell into my lap

This was uttered recently by two people on one of my coaching calls and, well, it made me insane. Of course, they were both talking about projects or jobs. As if the job fairy came around and just dropped a big juicy assignment in their laps like the stork drops babies.

Projects DON'T just fall into your lap. Things that DO fall into your lap:

  • Twigs or leaves
  • Crumbs or food
  • Hair from your head
  • Bird poop (if it misses your head)
  • A fly ball
  • An earring
  • A popped or broken button

You know what doesn't? Work. Because if you've been marketing your business, if you've been networking and building relationships, if you've put out reliable content and quality work for years, "falling into your lap" isn't a thing.

That's called Your Marketing is Working.

It's by design

The whole point of marketing is to get noticed.

When you get noticed, you have people coming to you.

You get referrals.

You get introductions.

No one "comes out of the blue" with a project.

They've been following you, hearing about you or were told about you from someone who trusts you.

Who respects you.

Who can vouch that you're their ideal person.

That you're uniquely qualified to help them.

It's literally by design!

Otherwise, why bother marketing yourself? (can you tell I'm fired up?!)

Like, why even bother?

There's no other reason to put yourself, your message and your services out there if you don't want to get more work, clients or customers.

This is why you do that!

This is why you post on social.

Or have a newsletter.

Or send emails.

Or showcase your work in case studies.

Or tell your boss about the goals and success metrics you hit.

Promoting yourself and your business is what makes work come to you.

And, if it seems like work is falling into your lap, then you're doing something right.

Just remember, you need to keep doing it.

And, if you want to Bring more you to work, ask me about my Employee Personality Branding sessions.

They help employees:

  • learn how to get the recognition they deserve
  • learn how to advocate for themselves
  • create stronger connections with their clients, colleagues and teams

And for employers:

  • makes project assignment easier
  • enables clearer delineation of workflow
  • fosters increased and improved teamwork

Francis Ardi

B2B content writer and copywriter for the health market.

2 年

That is the way to look at things and encouragement to keep spreading your name by commenting to the right people. Your LinkedIn tagline states what you do and who for. The right comments generate interest from the right individuals. Francis Ardi

Andrea DeMarchi

Branding & Brand Management for Sustainable Building Designers

2 年

This is a wonderful reminder that things “fall” in place after a lot of doing and to keep doing even when you feel like it’s not falling together. Keep up the work and the work will follow. Thanks for the wonderfully written newsletter that is humbling and genuine. Danielle Zeitlen Hughes

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Jeremy Goldman

Senior Director, Marketing, Commerce, and Tech Briefings @ EMARKETER | Leading Digital Marketing & Commerce Analyst

2 年

To me, this post is all about one thing: HUSTLE. Don't sell yourself short by waiting for things to happen. Love this sentiment—hope it serves as an inspiration to folks starting out, especially!

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Beth Granger

Accelerating Your LinkedIn? & Networking Learning Curve ? Exactly What to Say? Certified Guide ? Speaker, consultant, trainer ? Frequent LinkedIn Beta-Tester ? You Can't Automate Relationships?

2 年

Yesssss. You may not be able to easily track the actual path of the things you do to stay in front of your network and have something "fall into your lap," but there is one.

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