Nothing can break the bond between two who are meant to be together
Kishore Shintre
#newdaynewchapter is a Blog narrative started on March 1, 2021 co-founded by Kishore Shintre & Sonia Bedi, to write a new chapter everyday for making "Life" and not just making a "living"
Universe decides who is going to be meant to someone but sometimes it happens that this world wasn't meant or created for love, real love between two people. It was created and can only be owned by destruction and death,cruelty or selfishness. Therefore when something as beautiful and pure and love comes along, the world pushes back. The world tries to destroy it. Because they almost can't handle something so beautiful… yes love can survive but it takes two humans that are strong enough and brave enough to keep it close.
All it takes is dedication and loyalty. Most people are not mentally healthy. They've been damaged inside by a thousand things. Most humans when they find the person who is their other half don't know what the fuck to do with it… They self destruct it. Because it might make them feel afraid of losing it. Because they think they're not ready to settle down. Because they get so full of themselves by being loved by that person that they don't appreciate it and they end up taking it for granted. I mean there is a million things we do when we find the one. The one who completes us.
It's intimidating feeling having something so rad in your life. It feels so breakable. I think a lot of times people figure it's too precious really to withstand the world.. I think sometimes with real love like that, you have to have two people that are just as dedicated .. Two people that are just as aware of what they have. Two people who are willing to get that brave and admit it. But sometimes the best relationships - the ones that last the longest are the ones that aren't the love of your life because they don't make us afraid. That's really it.
And they don't shake us up. Recalibrate every cell in your body and make you more real than you've ever been. We get to maintain some control. We are not scared of losing them. Scared of them leaving us. You have to have two people …. Both of them committed to it.. Wanting it. Willing to do whatever it takes to keep that kind of love together .
That's so rare indeed as I know that has happened in my life, I've had some extraordinary experiences with people that could be nothing less than all of the cliched bullshit…all of that does exist and you know it when it happens to you because the world becomes an illusion and your love is the only real thing.. Strange shit happens , magical stuff.
We all have another half, a soul who broke off of ours ,and became another half of us.. That does exist. We all have soul mates, people that have walked with us in different life times , people that we are drawn to, that we have love with that we can't explain. That we can't describe. Love that traverses time and space and comes to life … people that are like magnets and find each other through anything and everything ….
But now the trouble is, sometimes that person or those people can live across the world. That's why you never find the love of your life while traveling , or after you've moved away from the place you were really meant to live. If you go off your path, you miss those soul mates .. At least I think so.. Our soul mates always are hiding in plain sight. At least in my experience. Look for the signals you receive from the person who is meant for you will meet you sometime in life through accident or coincidence but whatever you call it, you finally come together forever. Cheers!