The No-Vacation Nation
Ken Dychtwald
Founder/CEO at Age Wave, Psychologist/Gerontologist, Trustee at XPRIZE, and author of 19 books including What Retirees Want: A Holistic View of Life’s Third Age and Radical Curiosity.
The COVID-19 pandemic has thrown leisure into a whole new light, as tens of millions are out of work and given an unexpected “taste of retirement.” Is that creating enormous pent-up demand for travel and adventure? Or is it teaching people that they can make do with simple leisure activities close to home? In this excerpt from What Retirees Want: A Holistic View of Life’s Third Age (Wiley, 2020), my co-author Robert Morison and I discuss why Americans need to learn to detach from work and embrace their leisure.
For most of history, leisure was primarily the province of the wealthy elite. To the ancient Greeks, leisure was an opportunity for higher-order activities like scholarship, contemplation, and self-development. To the Romans, it was more associated with recreational pursuits. In the Judeo-Christian tradition, leisure centers on the Sabbath as a day of rest and religious activities. In the industrial era and per the Protestant work ethic, leisure came to mean rest from work so you could then work harder. Working harder is still the name of the game for many people, especially during their prime working and childrearing years. But older Americans – even those continuing to work part time in retirement – have much more leisure time, including the huge increase upon retirement.
That transition to time affluence can be abrupt and challenging, because for many Americans, workaholism – a round-the-clock addiction to work – has become a way of life, a big part of personal identity. We often define ourselves by our professions or titles or even how hard we work. And many Americans are out of practice or even unskilled at knowing how to take time off and what to do with themselves when they’re not working. Compared to other industrialized countries, where the norm is 25 to 30 vacation days each year, Americans are, at 14 days, vacation deprived (Figure). And unlike the governments of most other countries, the U.S. government doesn’t mandate any paid vacation or holidays to employees. The Center for Economic and Policy Research has dubbed the United States the “no-vacation nation.”
Average Number of Annual Vacation Days Offered by Employers
Source: Expedia, Vacation Deprivation Survey, 2018
To make matters worse, over half of employed Americans who receive paid time off don’t take all their vacation days. A record 768 million U.S. vacation days went unused in 2018, and 236 million of them were forfeited completely, equating to $65.5 billion in lost benefits. And when Americans do take vacations, most still work. Seventy percent say they check their work emails regularly and do other work activities while on vacation. If they can’t escape the job, they can’t fully enjoy the rest-and-recreation benefits of leisure. It’s no wonder that those who stop working “cold turkey” or take a career intermission can find the early days of retirement disorienting.
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Most retirees are so unaccustomed to unhinging from work that they don’t know what to do with all their free time. Sadly, in America last year, the average American age 65+ spent close to 50 hours a week – more than a traditional work week – watching television. So there’s plenty of opportunity for community organizations, recreation services providers, and family and friends to encourage more people to get off their couches and get involved in the myriad everyday leisure activities that are popping up in their communities and online.
Perhaps in the years ahead, there will be detox centers or 12-step programs for people trying to break their workaholic addiction and learn how to “be here now” in their retirement years. At the very least, perhaps Tony Robbins and Deepak Chopra will take note of this challenge and attempt to help people relearn how to let go and have some fun.
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Retired State of Ohio Program Administrator
3 年I retired six months ago and I will say that I’ve not been worried about work since then. In fact it’s been the opposite. My time is mine, my own, it is precious to me. I’ve contemplated volunteering but at this moment I’m not willing to have anyone constrain me by telling me where and when I have to be someplace. That has been my experience thus far.
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3 年Very interesting!
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3 年Ken perhaps the “electronic cottages” (our homes) that Alvin and Heidi Toffler described some 40-50 years ago have become “prisons” of sorts where all work and leisure is centered; Covid has underscored the Need for many to venture out and “smell” the coffee somewhere other than their own kitchen. I am not retired, that said, I will pose the question to myself “ What Will I Want when retired” and read your book. Great post.