Ninja Boundaries
Shane B Kulman MS SpEd, AMFT
Celebration Expert & Speaker | Enchantress of Ceremonies | Wise Women | Artist | #1 Best Selling Author | Couples Counseling Method: P.A.R.N. Guiding sensitive folks to having more connection, and joy
Ninja Boundaries??
When you hire and work with a team there are natural leaders. When you are a leader and know your boundaries so well, so that even when you get challenged in real time, you can respond in your authentic and truthful way.?
To be the ninja that you can be, you must know, people will test you, loved ones will tantrum, you will feel terrible, you may cry and worry that you are mean. Rest assured -? this is normal, your people are accustomed to your pleasing ways, and now they must adjust, and the secret is… they will.? Adults test boundaries just as children do, that includes young adults, how can you be of best service while not stomping on a power that a young adult is finding and experimenting with? AND honoring the caregiver/adult teacher who is also working to keep or gain respect. It's not easy and requires NINJA like boundaries.
When you re-find your light, and your purpose and you fuck your fears, people will want you to be around, some will be inspired and some will be people that you create boundaries with, and while people always have the option to change.?
In a realm where magic dances with reality, boundaries stand tall like enchanted guardians. They are built by you, and it takes folks to upset you to learn boundaries, but if you know that ahead of time, then you can thank the people that piss you off the most. See how that works??
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When you set boundaries according to your discipline, people, especially loved ones, may be disappointed with you, and that will be uncomfortable, but when you commit to your discipline which will appear to be unconventional and wrong and bad to others, you win, eventually the good ones come back anyway.?
But warning; when you have ninja boundaries, people will fade out of your life, they will go kicking and screaming or they will slip away quietly. Witness them and give compassion to them, and to yourself.?
In a world where chaos clamors for attention, boundaries serve as the steadfast compass guiding us towards inner harmony and external integrity.
Who would you like to set boundaries with? What is the situation??
Write long and a lot on this, you have all the answers, just you wait and see. Write a letter to your inner little one and let her know setting boundaries is the freedom she longs for.
Celebration Expert & Speaker | Enchantress of Ceremonies | Wise Women | Artist | #1 Best Selling Author | Couples Counseling Method: P.A.R.N. Guiding sensitive folks to having more connection, and joy
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