New Year...Same You

Happy New Year Everyone,

Well, we are one week into 2023…woohooo- right?! Well for some however it’s a continuation of more of the same.

The Magic Day January 1st has come and gone. And for 95% of us the pixie dust on all of those NEW YEARS RESOLUTIONS and Promises to be a NEW YOU has already begun to wear off.

I know it’s been a little while since I’ve been in touch but much like all of you as people say?“Life has been lifin’” and I have had to take a step back to deal with lots of personal issues/items over the past three months but God is still good and I am blessed to have amazing people just like you in my corner- so thanks so much for the love and support!

But, this is NOT about me it’s about YOU so, if I may please allow me to do a deeper dive into what has happened from Jan 1st??until now that may have you or someone you know already in a stagnant pattern.

You see it’s never really a new YOU- regardless of a calendar change- it’s always the same YOU with some minor or major positive or negative adjustments. So contrary to popular belief I am not a fan of New Year – New You, because it really is the same you……

But this concept and all of the hype behind it is not your FAULT…?

As the clock struck 12 on January 1 you were so amped, so excited and so ready. You started 2023 with high hopes, great expectations and a list of "resolutions" that you probably?(if you were truly honest) had no hope of keeping (especially without help).

Why? Actually, this is a pretty loaded question and there are lots of reasons why people don’t follow through, but I’ll deal with the 3 main reasons that I recently shared with a news reporter who reached out to me at the top of the year for a New Year's Resolutions Segment centered around sticking with and keeping resolutions.

Most of our lack of follow through and commitment stem from:

1. Lack of Healthy Sustainable Habits- not knowing what to do to follow through, I call this Habitual Quitting Syndrome (HQS) and it's indeed a learned behavior. When things get tough many let go, drop out etc... (this is the wussification of America...ok sorry I digress)

2. The continued disrespect of Goals- setting goals/resolutions out of habit but not really understanding what you want and why you want it?

3. Limiting Beliefs- incongruent and devaluing beliefs that keep us unbalanced in our pursuits.

So, It’s time out for playing and just like your kids… School is in Session!

Look...You've talked enough, planned enough, prayed enough, organized enough, ________ enough but it hasn't worked –so NOW it’s time to: Get Sh*t Done. Period. End of Story.

And there's no better way to set yourself up to succeed then to invest your time, energy and even your finances into YOU so that you can get what you really want!

I've heard many individuals especially after the last 3 years describe 2023 as:?the year of Living Your Purpose, Taking risks, Clarity, Putting themselves first, A Year of Elevation and a Year of Impactful Change. So, I ask you: what do you want in 2023??and?what are you going to do to ensure that you get it?

You see, I've learned that talk is cheap, so it's definitely time for some ACTION!!!

I know that you’ve gone to college; joined the armed forces or the workforce, and did what your parents advised you to. Sure, you may have all those fancy degrees and many times the large amount of debt that comes from attaining those expensive pieces of paper

I know you’ve worked in ______ Field for 5, 10, 15, or 20+ years and it may or may not be fulfilling. I know that you have tried, and failed, and tried and succeeded, and perhaps you are completely clueless as to next steps, but guess what? That’s actually a great place to be. So as #KevinHart would say, Let me explain….

If this perpetual (never-ending) pandemic taught us anything it's that tomorrow is not promised to any of us and that we MUST look at things and do things differently. And, that process of reflection, refocusing and reinvention often comes with a need to for guidance along that path.

That of course for all of us means investing in ourselves and seeking guidance from an expert to assist in that process, so I challenge you to seek out that assistance, make it happen and Get Sh*t Done!

Of course I’d be honored to be that individual for you but regardless if you come to me or not, you owe it to yourself to position yourself for success and significance- You’re beyond worth it! So here’s to you! No more excuses, No more wishing, no more watching, no more waiting, It’s Your Time- Welcome to a New Year…not a New You but just an upgraded and better version!

Growing up I loved the choose your own adventure books, so I invite you to choose your own adventure to work on and invest in you. And because you asked I have a few options:

Option 1-?Back by Popular Demand- I’m bringing back my?LIMITLESS LIVE Event- a one day experience dedicated to helping you eliminate and annihilate the limiting beliefs and behaviors that are holding you back from getting the MORE that you desire in every aspect of life! From business to relationships and all points in-between we’ve got you covered… Yes real life coaching, interventions and skillset building that can and will change your life- Join us:?Limitless LIVE-( January 2023)

Option 2-?For all of my aspiring and existing coaches out there my Coaching Blueprint Live Event has been life changing for so many so join us at the next live event in LA – seating is limited to provide the most intimate and impactful experience possible so make sure you lock in your spot today:?The Coaching Blueprint Live in LA - March 2023

Check out?this video?I did in Paradise that shares why people don't get what they want.. and if you are truly interested in getting more and making 2023 Your Year seriously....choose one of the aforementioned options or feel free to complete this?simple info form?and we may be able to explore how my team and I can be of assistance.

Cheers to an amazing 2023!