New Year Resolutions

Good Morning All My Lovely Friends,

Wish you all a very very happy new year 2016.

After spending weeks on this, I have tried my best to give you something better than so many things. So it’s my humble request you all to go through it & give your comments and share if you like it and correct me wherever required.

Now coming to the point, do we really think that the resolutions of new year which is actually changing the year from the top of the list and keeping all activities same as kept in last year, really serve the purpose. Or it’s just a new year resolution that pop up only in late December. As every year we either decide to start something which is good for us or stop something which is bad for us but failed.  A much smaller percentage of people actually make good on those resolutions but most of quits. And such resolutions are like.

Read more, Drink less, Quit Smoking, loss weight, get fit, find new job, save money, help others, Exercise more, Eat healthier, Learn to sing or dance, learn new language, find love, take time for self, enjoy life, travel more etc etc and many more..

But how story goes is each January, roughly lesser people resolve to better themselves in some way. While about most of people stick to their goals for at least a week and then when it’s come to consistency then we say next time. It's hard to keep up the enthusiasm which is not impossible.

But end of the story we only understand that whatever we try to do is to make ourselves better person than last year. Then why do we failed, I believe while make anything great or a big things out of anything, people work hard on that things. But when we try to make ourselves great, we start working hard on circumstances not on ourselves and that’s where the problem lies.

Many think that why it’s happen to them only, why they are not successful, why they are not happy. But they failed to understand that our actions define our success. And in-spite of knowing this if still someone ask the same question then he is the biggest fool on this planet called earth.

As they themselves becomes obstacle for self growth or self betterment. But Changing yourself completely is an incredibly challenging thing to do. However, if you feel that you aren’t living up to your potential and imagine yourself to be a completely different person, you can change. It takes self-reflection, dedication, focus, and time to change drastically. Whether you want to focus more on the way you look, the way you act, or the path your life is on, there is always time to change yourself. You can become the person you want to be.

“Be the change you want to see in the world.” By Mahatma Gandhi.

A lot of people want change in their lives, or even to change the world. But failure comes when they start  placing the responsibility on others or start blaming others like how things are on governments, destiny, luck, other people, society. And the reality is everything is interconnected, so it is possible to take full responsibility for everything that happens to you – preferably without blaming yourself, but with love, acceptance and forgiveness.

The only way to change the outside world is by changing the inner world, by changing the self. My life completely changed when I came across this, which you must go through it

“There is NOTHING as powerful as a changed mind. You can change your hair, your clothing, your address, your spouse, your friends, but if you don’t change your mind, the same experience will perpetuate itself over and over again because everything outwardly changed but nothing inwardly changed.” ~ Bishop TD Jakes.

There was a time when I had spent a lot of energy trying to change the outside world, thinking that by doing so I was going to feel happier and my life was going to get a lot better. Because I honestly thought that I couldn’t be happy unless the outside circumstances were different, I would try very hard to change everything and everyone. But after a while, because I realized I was going nowhere with that approach, I stopped trying to change the world and I began changing myself instead.

‘Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself.” ~ Rumi

I started changing my mind, my thoughts, my beliefs and my ideas about who I was and about how life was meant to function. And in time I realized that by doing so, not only did I start feeling a lot more relaxed and happier about myself and my life, but life seemed to get easier and easier. And I no longer felt the need to change the outside world. Why? Because I finally understood that the world is nothing but the way  we looked at it.  

As you go through school, and life, keep in mind that struggling is an important part of any growth experience. In fact, it is the struggle that causes you to develop your ability to fly.

In last but not least, I have only one request to all my dear friends that we don’t know how much time we have, we don’t know how many birth we take. But all what we know is, if we do not use what we have then it does not matter how much we have.

“Many of us learn about the wondrous process by which a caterpillar morphs into a butterfly”. SO don’t go through only words go through this experience to have strong wings to fly your career.

Wish you all very happy New Year 2016.

We are not here to make believe, we are here to believe we can make it.

I will not say all the best but I want to say Give your best.......

YOGESH PAWAR.

Your well wisher.....

As usual - will come with old topic and new views in next week.......till then make your resolution and stick to it until you see the complete changes in you.......