A new Year or a New Person?
Bijay Kumar Khandal
Communication Coach | Leadership Coach | Career Coach | Productivity Coach | Relationship Coach| Executive Coach
Getting euphoric during a new year time is obvious. But keeping that excitement for a month is not easy.
In the initial year of my career, I used to get motivated by these important dates. There used to be an excitement about something, but what it was I didn't know.
It used to get vanished. The reason was that wrapper was changed, but nothing changed internally.
If you want a lasting change in 2021, then I can give you some ideas based on my research on the survey I conducted on this subject in my live session.
I surveyed close to 250 participants from all walks of life to determine whether they set some goals in 2020, and I found that 69% had set their goals in 2020.
The next question I asked was how long did they persist with their goals?
The answer I received was not a surprise to me. Whopping 58% gave up on their goals by 3rd month.
Then I deep dived into understanding why people set goals first and then what happens to them to give up on their dreams.
I Found two primary reason:
Fear of Failure
Fear of Success.
Fear of failure is not difficult to understand, as most of us know it. But fear of success is something that very few people are aware of.
In the survey, I found that 62% believed that success brings stress.
44% didn't have any pasts success so getting a reference of success was very difficult.
If this is our internal belief, how is it possible to set some goals and achieve them?
I covered the detail of this subject in my workshop. If you are interested to understand the subject in a better way, drop me a message on WhatsApp with your name and subject (Need recording of "New year or new person")
I will send you the recording of the session.
Keep learning and growing. See you next Sunday with a new article and new research.
#leadership #success #goalsetting
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3 年It was an amazing session on goal setting and priorities. It was an eye opening session for me. Most of us tend to take our goals for granted and don't realize how we handle our fears and our belief system plays a major role in whether we succeed or not. Fear of failure, fear of stress, ego and changes that success brings, and not being able to visualise success in atleast one area of our lives are the major reasons for us to not achieve the goals we set for ourselves. For me this session will definitely help in setting realistic goals in my growth areas in 2021. Thank you Bijay Kumar Khandal for this wonderful session. #peakimpactmentorship #goalsetting
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3 年Great workshop on setting up priorities by Bijay Kumar Khandal Sir Learnings:- -- People give up on their goals due to lack of belief and other priorities. -- Visualize success or daily so that you can make your belief system strong enough to look for success -- We need to see ourself getting successful in atleast one area of our life -- People are scared of success due to ego, stress -- Success comes through a reference system What an amazing session on priorities and goals and how we can transform ourself in 2021:- Thanks to Bijay Kumar Khandal Peak Impact Mentorship Bishal Neogi Rahul Gupta Devipriya V Ajeet Singh Rajesh Tiwari Aji George Ujjwal Kumar Upadhyay Alok Tripathi Jasmeet Singh Dhruva Teja S P Surendra nath Ajeet Singh Pradeep B G
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3 年Thank you Bijay Kumar Khandal for giving clarity on how to set realistic goals and achieve it 1.Belief system must be taken care first to achieve what we want 2.Visualizing the best version of successful me is important 3.If visualizing is difficult then get the success references in our own lives I recommend my friend Ramesh Tekumudi Mahesh Gupta Kanamarlapudi Juluri Sandeep Kaushik Samayamantri Raghavender Prodhutoori to check this out and get clarity on how to set goals. If you want to go through the recorded session ping me
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3 年It was an amazing session on Setting Goals, Definition of Success, why we give up on our goals, Demons in our mind, i.e., Fear and a faltering Belief System and tools to revamp our Belief System.....thank your Bijay Kumar Khandal Sir for leading us to Growth.... Mike Tyson Joseph Chethan Shivaraju Palas Biswas Himadri Mitra ajay singh BIKASH MUSIB