Never lose hope! Nobody is watching your failure - only you are making your first failure a Lifetime Failure
Muhammad Shaoor Khan
Ex - Product Management at Hacon - A Siemens Company, Werkstudent | Railway Engineering, Msc. | Past Education: Diploma Information ?? Technology, BSc. Civil ??♂? Engg
Times come in life when you are puzzled, disorganized, and uncertain about what you want to do, either because you're having too many options or you're concerned if you'll even get what you want.
You learn so much to be the number one and on top of the list everywhere you apply to. But, despite your skills and achievements, you might not get the position you applied for or the dream you want to achieve right now.
Our human mind is such that if we feel like we didn't get selected for one specific position, or if we didn't achieve that specific goal right now, the people surrounding us will be waiting to laugh off at us, or that they care about our future, or that they might feel we're incompetent and aren't successful.
The main reason we get dejected after not achieving our goal on the first attempt is the same.. The "People will know of my failure" reason.
But let me tell you something - no one is looking to demoralize you or laugh it off. It is only you that makes your single failure big by your thoughts. During this phase of pain, you create your world of agony, discontent, and humiliation, and so when you meet someone you begin to think they'll ask you what you did.
Forget about it. They don't even know what you're up to. Remove the mental faculties that are causing you these thoughts.
Success always comes with patience and a continuous stride towards its path.
Every individual lives in a different time dimension. Your friend's time of success might come earlier than yours, but yours is definitely certain provided you don't give up.
Business Analyst at McKinsey & Company | Stanford Undergrad‘24 | Native Rights Enthusiast
4 年Very encouraging and inspiring passage! Sometimes people frighten themselves and stop making progress because of random comments or opinions.