Networks & Friendships: The Roads That Connect Us

In the grand journey of life, the people we meet shape our experiences, growth, and opportunities. Some stay for a season, others for a lifetime, but all leave an imprint. Just like the intricate network of roads connecting African villages, our friendships and professional relationships are pathways that intersect, diverge, and reconnect over time.

The African Perspective: If You Want to Go Fast, Go Alone. If You Want to Go Far, Go Together.

This well-known African proverb speaks to the power of community. In many African cultures, life is not an individual race but a collective journey. Our ancestors built societies through shared wisdom, communal labour, and strong relationships. Just as one traveller may start a journey alone but inevitably join others on the road, so do our friendships and networks evolve over time.

The Bus Ride of Life: Different Stops, One Destination

Imagine life as a long bus ride. Some friends board at the same stop, travelling with us for a long stretch. Others take a different route, only to meet us again at an intersection. A friend from childhood might reappear years later as a business partner. A former colleague may unexpectedly become a bridge to a new opportunity.

In the Maasai tradition, warriors would often travel to different villages, forming bonds that lasted a lifetime. These relationships weren’t just social; they were strategic—ensuring protection, trade, and the spread of knowledge. Similarly, the friendships and networks we cultivate today can serve as bridges to the future.

A Tree Is Strong Not Because of One Root but Many.

Another African proverb reminds us that strength comes from multiple connections. A tree with deep, widespread roots can withstand strong winds. In life, the more meaningful connections we have—both personal and professional—the more resilient we become.

Think of Wangari Maathai, the Kenyan environmentalist and Nobel Laureate. She didn’t plant trees alone; she built a network of women across Kenya to champion reforestation. Through these connections, she not only restored forests but also empowered communities.

The Power of Keeping in Touch

In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to lose touch. But the beauty of networks, like friendships, is that they remain even when paths diverge. A simple check-in, a thoughtful conversation, or a shared experience can reignite connections.

Here are some ways to keep your networks and friendships alive:

Be intentional – Reach out, even when there’s no immediate reason.

Offer value – Help, support, and share opportunities without expecting immediate returns.

Reconnect at intersections – Life will always provide moments to catch up; make the most of them.

A River That Forgets Its Source Will Dry Up.

This Ghanaian proverb teaches us the importance of remembering our roots. No matter how far we go in life, our friendships and networks are part of our foundation. Staying connected is not just about personal gain but about honouring the journey and those who have been part of it.

Final Thought: Treasure Your Networks, Cherish Your Friends

Life’s paths may be different, but the intersections are inevitable. Whether in business or personal growth, the connections we nurture today will shape our tomorrows. Keep your network strong, your friendships intentional, and your doors open—you never know when the road will bring you back to someone who once walked beside you.

As my people from Mùrìma observe and quote, "It’s only mountains that never bump into each other! People will always meet." No matter how far we go, life has a way of bringing us together again. Treasure those moments, for they are the heartbeat of lasting relationships.

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