Networking Like a Jedi: Tips from Diane Darling
Diane Darling, CGSP
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Networking is a critical skill for professionals in any industry. However, for many people, the idea of networking can be intimidating, overwhelming, or even downright scary.
Thankfully, Diane Darling, a renowned networking expert, has some tips for how to network like a Jedi. The following sections break down her tips into more detail.
The Force is Strong in Networking
1.1 Use the Force
Just like the Jedi are mindful of the Force, you must be aware of your surroundings when networking. Be aware of the people around you and the potential opportunities that may arise. In other words, use the Force to guide you in your networking endeavors.
1.2 Be Mindful of the Force
In addition to being aware of your surroundings, you should also be mindful of the Force within you. Be confident in your abilities and trust your instincts. Believe in yourself just as the Jedi believe in the Force.
Building Relationships like a Jedi
2.1 Focus on Building Relationships
The Jedi are not just warriors, they are also diplomats and problem-solvers. Similarly, networking is not just about making transactions, it's about building relationships. Focus on getting to know people, learning about their needs and interests, and finding ways to help them. Building genuine relationships is key to successful networking.
2.2 Be a Diplomat and a Problem Solver
Just like the Jedi, you should aim to be a diplomat and a problem solver. Be kind and respectful to everyone you meet, and try to solve any problems that arise. This will help you establish a good reputation and build trust with others.
Use the Jedi Mind Trick
3.1 Communicate Effectively
Okay, maybe not the literal Jedi mind trick, but the power of persuasion is a critical networking skill. Learn how to communicate your ideas effectively, ask thoughtful questions, and influence people in a positive way. Being an effective communicator is key to achieving your networking goals.
3.2 Ask Thoughtful Questions
Asking thoughtful questions can help you learn more about the people you're networking with and their needs. This can help you find ways to help them and build a stronger relationship.
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3.3 Influence People Positively
Influencing people in a positive way means finding ways to help them and make a positive impact on their lives. By doing so, you'll build a strong reputation and establish trust with others, making it easier to achieve your networking goals.
Practice Makes Perfect
4.1 Attend Networking Events
Attending networking events is a great way to practice your networking skills, meet new people, and build relationships. Look for events in your industry or community, and make an effort to attend them regularly.
4.2 Practice Your Elevator Pitch
An elevator pitch is a short summary of who you are and what you do. Practicing your elevator pitch can help you communicate your value proposition effectively and make a strong first impression.
4.3 Connect with People
Finally, make an effort to connect with people outside of networking events. Follow up with people you meet, send them a personalized message, and try to establish a relationship beyond the initial interaction. This will help you build a strong network of contacts over time.
By following these tips from Diane Darling, you too can become a networking Jedi.
May the Force be with you.
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1 年Thank you for posting this! Would it be inappropriate for me to share it on my FB page? I will share it on my linked in if I can make that work. I loved hearing you speak at a Principia event in Washington a few years ago and really enjoy getting your email messages. I forward this to my kids tonight. I really wish I had heard you when I was in high school or college! It would have really helped an introvert like me. Back then everyone talked about networking but didn't really talk about how to do it like you do with so many helpful techniques that even an introvert can do! Your "How to work a room" diagram is useful and I still have two from that Principia event: one at my house in Washington and one at my house in NH. I am an ISFP.
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