Navigating the Twenties: Embracing the In-Between
Ms Zinhle Novazi
Attorney | Lecturer of Law | Technology Law & Tax | Director of Heavy Chef Foundation| Mail & Guardian 200 | Soli Deo Gloria
Entering your twenties can feel like stepping into a whirlwind of uncertainty and possibility. It's a time when you're no longer shielded by the structure of education, but the real world hasn't quite solidified around you yet. Navigating this period can be challenging, as you grapple with questions of identity, purpose, and the elusive concept of "what's next."
"Summer may have brought relief from uncertainty as everyone frolicked on the beach, read novels, and wasted time, but now the burning questions return with vengeance: What’s next? Who am I?" This quote encapsulates the transition from the carefree days of summer to the weighty responsibilities of adulthood. The leisurely moments of relaxation fade away, replaced by the pressure to carve out a path for yourself in the world.
"Where purpose and goals were once pre-defined, there are now often years and years in which each person needs to define those goals for him or herself." The twenties are a period of self-discovery and exploration. Unlike the structured environment of school, where goals are often predefined, this decade offers a blank canvas upon which you can paint your aspirations and ambitions. It's a time to experiment, to fail, and to learn what truly ignites your passion.
"Unfortunately, our culture tends to teach us that the course of life is like the bar graph of a Ponzi scheme: Only growth! Success!" Society often bombards us with images of relentless success and unending growth. However, the reality is far more nuanced. The twenties are filled with ups and downs, moments of triumph and moments of despair. It's important to remember that setbacks are not failures but rather opportunities for growth and self-reflection.
"Faking joy around others (or on social media) is a quick path to unrelenting depression (and it doesn’t help others’ mental health either)." In the age of social media, it's all too easy to curate a facade of happiness and success for the world to see. However, this can lead to feelings of inadequacy and isolation. Authenticity is key during this tumultuous time. Be honest about your struggles and vulnerabilities, and you may find that others resonate with your experiences more than you realize.
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"Give your body attention for the sake of love, not sculpting or photos." In a society obsessed with physical appearance, it's crucial to prioritize self-care and self-love over superficial ideals of beauty. Instead of striving for the perfect body or the most flattering Instagram photo, focus on nourishing your body and soul from within. Treat yourself with kindness and compassion, and your inner radiance will shine brighter than any filter.
Navigating your twenties is undoubtedly challenging, but it's also an exhilarating journey filled with growth, discovery, and endless possibilities. Embrace the in-between moments, cherish the lessons learned along the way, and trust that the path will unfold before you as you navigate this exciting chapter of life.
Written by : Ms Zinhle Novazi
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"Where purpose and goals were once pre-defined, there are now often years and years in which each person needs to define those goals for him or herself." The twenties are a period of self-discovery and exploration. Unlike the structured environment of school, where goals are often predefined, this decade offers a blank canvas upon which you can paint your aspirations and ambitions. It's a time to experiment, to fail, and to learn what truly ignites your passion. #navigatingthetwenties