There are no names for some relations
Kishore Shintre
#newdaynewchapter is a Blog narrative started on March 1, 2021 co-founded by Kishore Shintre & Sonia Bedi, to write a new chapter everyday for making "Life" and not just making a "living"
When we talk about Nameless relationship , we need to minimize many attributes from it and then, Its not “Just” a name - less relationship anymore but also Expectation - less , Promise - less , Oath - less and Limit - less itself But still ...!!! It ain't meaning - less ^_^and if you are in such relationship , that doesn’t means that there is no place for love .Yes , the definition and perceived value may vary. I 'm in one . Yes at the present time I’m in a nameless relationship with a girl. I do give a damn about her. But I don't do any stupid things to express my affection for her. Maybe she matters to me in the most special way.
Keeping things simple stupid. Everyone's body undergoes changes, with time everyone of us discover new possibilities within ourselves . So, in order to attain our desires , some of us use the path of love relationships and some attain it simply through straight forwardly nakened pure lust. Unless and until you are not involved in any punishable offense, damn! everything is justified....!!! As such, there are no commitments made on either side and as such she is free to move out of this bond anytime and I'm totally okay with it. Because I don't want to confine her to something she doesn't want to be in it. Commitments will somehow bring expectations and promises to it and I don't like to violate the laws.
We are selfish in taking full advantage of each others' minds and bodies. But every single being on the planet is sub - consciously using the other. Both of us being from science background prefer to go by logics as together we are learning, exploring, unlearning, unleashing, adapting, evolving and above all we are far more happier than being in a romantic or love relationship because its not at all complicated. A nameless relation is still a relation and if there is mutual understanding, respect for each other, well then it is better. I have seen people go into relationships just for the sake of a relation. It is good, when there are no tag lines. We just call it a bond!
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Do most things together. Do some things separately. Compromise. Know when to put your foot down. Fight fair - some things can’t be unsaid. Don’t sweat the small stuff. Don’t go to bed angry. Compliment her, More often than not. Don’t let meaningless fights spiral out; walk away. Say sorry. Accept them for who they are. (Don’t try to change them.) Don’t take your bad day out on each other. Compromise x 2. Be very, very patient. Be willing to put in extra work. Listen. More work. Compromise x 3. But do it together its more fun and love.
Does she have a cute scar on her face? Kiss that scar every day and tell her that she is perfect. Is he short tempered? Kiss him when he is angry and tell him that you love him. Did she put on some weight? Kiss her tummy and tell her that you love chubby girls. Is he an introvert? Kiss his tongue and ask him to speak something, while being naughty. Is she possessive? Kiss her in front of the girl whom she hates because she sticks around you a lot. Is he broken? Kiss him, hold his hand and tell him that you will be with him forever. Nobody is perfect. We all have flaws. We all have insecurities. We all have fears that are residing in our hearts. I am not flawless. You are not flawless. Your partner is not flawless. Learn to love them, the way they are. That's the key to a happy relationship. Cheers!
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2 年U are on dot, Kishore. Very nice post.
Retires Scientist G & Scientist In charge MERADO Ludhiana CSIR / CMERI and Ex Commander (Indian Navy)
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