The Name Game: A Tale of Spelling Woes
Samer Taher
Board Director | Editor-at-large | But most of all, I write The Elephant in the Office newsletter.
They say the sweetest sound in any language is your own name. Psychology tells us it's the most motivating word we can hear, lighting up our brains like a Christmas tree on steroids. And let's face it—whether you're a Smith from Seattle or a Patel from Punjab, your name is your personal brand, your identifier, your cosmic calling card in this vast universe.
Which is why I'm here to address the elephant in the inbox: the persistent plague of name misspellings in professional communication. You know what I'm talking about—those emails that begin with "Dear Samir" when my name is Samer. S-A-M-E-R. Not Samar, not Sammer, and definitely not whatever autocorrect decides to conjure up in its algorithmic wisdom.
"But it's the spell checker!" they protest, throwing their hands up in digital surrender. Oh, really? The same spell checker that lets you manually add words to its dictionary? The same technology that can remember your coffee order from three years ago but somehow can't handle five simple letters in the correct order?
Let's be real here: my name isn't exactly trying to compete with Elon Musk's X ? A-12 in the complexity department, nor am I asking you to master the consonant gymnastics of Zbigniew Brzezinski (National Security Advisor to President Jimmy Carter from 1977 to 1981). It's not like I'm asking you to spell Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious or navigate the pronunciation maze of Worcestershire. It's Samer. Not exactly a linguistic obstacle course.
Here's the thing: in our wonderfully diverse world, names come in all shapes, sizes, and origins. Each one carries a story, a heritage, and yes, a specific spelling. When you consistently misspell someone's name, you're not just making a typo—you're showing a casual disregard for their identity. It's like serving someone a hamburger when they ordered a hot dog and saying, "Well, they're both food, right?"
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The solution? It's surprisingly simple: take the three seconds needed to double-check the spelling. Copy and paste if you must. Create a contact card. Write it on your forehead backward so you can read it in the mirror every morning. Whatever works! Because in the grand scheme of things, those three seconds of effort speak volumes about your attention to detail and respect for others.
And let's not forget the golden rule of name etiquette: if you're unsure, ask. Trust me, people would rather answer a quick "How do you spell your name?" than receive a dozen emails addressed to their evil twin, who apparently exists in spell-check purgatory.
So, the next time you're about to hit send on that email, take a moment to verify the spelling. Your recipients will notice, and they'll appreciate it. Because while Shakespeare might have pondered, "What's in a name?" the answer is simple: respect, identity, and five correctly ordered letters that make all the difference.
Remember, in a world where we can land rovers on Mars and have AI write poetry, surely we can manage to spell each other's names correctly. It's not rocket science—though even if it were, I bet NASA double-checks their spellings too.
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