Myths Lie. Experience Doesn’t

Let’s face it—half of what we believe is probably based on hearsay, internet theories, or that one uncle who claims to know everything. Of course we have the whatsapp university. In an age where misinformation spreads faster than wildfire, it has become crucial to separate myth from reality. But how do we do that? The answer is simple: by acquiring first-hand knowledge and experience.

Why Myths Persist

Myths have a way of sticking around like that one song you heard on the radio and now can’t get out of your head. They persist because:

• They are convenient – It’s easier to accept a widely believed narrative than to investigate the truth.
• They are emotionally appealing – Myths often align with what we want to believe ( and we blame algorithms )
• They are reinforced socially – The more people repeat something, the more it feels like the truth.
• They stem from partial truths – Many myths may or may not have an iota of truth but are exaggerated or misinterpreted.

The Danger of Myths in Decision-Making

Whether in business, personal life, or even health, myths can lead to poor decisions. Imagine making investment choices based on rumors or treating a medical condition based on an old wives’ tale—risky, right? Misconceptions can lead to wasted opportunities, inefficiencies, and even harm.

The Power of First-Hand Experience

To truly differentiate myth from reality, first-hand knowledge is essential. Here’s why:

• Direct Observation Trumps Opinion Reading about a place is not the same as visiting it. You can hear a thousand things about a country, but only when you go there do you realize the truth about its people, culture, and economy.
• Experience Breaks Assumptions Many assume startups are glamorous until they actually build one and experience the sleepless nights, financial stress, and the constant need for adaptability. First-hand experience shatters illusions.
• Practical Knowledge Outweighs Theory No amount of books on swimming can prepare you for being in water. The same goes for leadership, relationships, and skills—you have to do it to truly understand it.

How to Seek First-Hand Knowledge

• Test the Claims – Instead of accepting things at face value, experiment. If a diet claims miraculous results, try it under controlled conditions and track the data.
• Engage Directly – Want to understand a profession? Intern, volunteer, or shadow someone in the field.
• Ask the Right Questions – Challenge assumptions by asking "How do you know?" or "What evidence supports this?"
• Observe Without Bias – Avoid seeing only what you expect to see. Keep an open mind and let reality surprise you.
• Diversify Your Sources – Rely on multiple perspectives before forming an opinion.

Final Thoughts

The difference between those who succeed and those who fall for illusions often comes down to one thing: who seeks first-hand experience and who relies on second-hand myths. Reality is sometimes uncomfortable, but it is always empowering. So, the next time someone tells you "This is just the way things are," challenge it.

Go see for yourself. The truth is waiting.