Mystery of Love

Now this one is something we all have been trying to define all our lives. But guess what no matter how much you google it, listen to experiences or watch romantic movies. Nothing of all this can lead you to your answer. Trying to define it will confuse you even more. Love is not a science that can be proven or is based on facts which can be universally true. Rather it is a feeling and no two feelings or expressions can be same at a given point of time and place.

As individuals grow, their meaning of love alters. Here, I’m not only talking about romantic love but all kinds of love. Love doesn’t have a formula or steps that can make other person fall in love with you or the other way round. Now, when it comes to love, the LGBT club has faced lots of challenges to make the society understand that their love is as real as any heterosexual couple.

There are certain obligations defined by the society regarding your eligible match. If I talk about Indian society, it is believed that parents are the best judge to make these decisions for their child. Well, it may be true in some cases but this false belief has led to many couples live in an unhappy marriage. Nobody forces you in an arranged marriage. You get ample of time to know a person. But if you are still unhappy despite your partner being a perfect match for you according to all societal standards then it is high time to realise that love has its own science that only cupids understand.

But if I’m here to write about it, I must say love is a magnetic pull that pulls you to an individual. Attraction may last for a short while but love requires effort. It may appear effortless to make those efforts in the blossoming phase of love because that pull is making you do everything. But just like your house, your car, your clothes, your utilities need maintenance so does your love. It will become rusty if you will not try to make your partner feel special every single day.

If you want to experience love like the 5% population of happily married couples do, then you need to put in that extra effort too. For success at work, if you need to put in that extra effort then for success at relationships also you need to put that extra effort. Nothing comes into existence without an effort. Writing a book wouldn’t be possible if I didn’t took an effort to write it. I may not be an expert on love but counselling various couples have given me an insight to the unbiased dynamics of the relationships which you usually don’t see in the goody good world of social media.

Water your relationships and reap the love!